How To Attract Cardinals To Your Backyard

Today, I’m sharing tips on how to attract cardinals to your backyardThe cardinal also known as “redbirds” is my state bird, West Virginia.  They were also the mascot for my high school growing up, so I’ve always had an infinity toward them.  Cardinals are known as visitors from heaven, which makes me think of my mother, father and grandparents.  As a result, they are one of my favorite backyard birds.  

 

How to Attract Cardinals

 

Fortunately, my backyard is full of them year round.  And, as you can see my northern cardinals love seeds.   The males are red with black back/tail feathers and are a standout anytime of the year.  But, they are breathtaking during the winter months against the snow.  During mating season, the brighter the better to the female cardinals.

 

how to attract cardinals

 

The females have some red, but are mostly tan and gray.  They sing outside my bedroom window in the morning.  Cardinals are known to have up to 12 different songs.  While watching them, I’ve found them to be quite sociable.  They wait their turn at the feeder and interact well with other species.

How to attract cardinals to your backyard:

  • Provide mixed birdseed as well as black oil sunflower seeds.
  • Safflower seeds are another favorite.
  • Cracked corn and apples are also favorites.
  • Use a platform or hopper feeder near shrubs and bushes.
  • Offer a birdbath or other water feature, especially in the summer.
  • Plant nasturtium, purple coneflower, safflower, sunflower and sweet pea plants.
  • Cardinals love berries such as dogwood, hackberries, and northern bayberry.
  • Cardinals nest in evergreen and rose bushes if they are are least 8 feet or taller.

 

They also eat insects and sap from the trees.  However, I have yet to see them eat from the suet feeder.  The male is quite the gentleman.  The majority of the time he will perch on a branch while the female eats and than he takes his turn.

 

 

how to attract cardinals

 

You can enjoy the male cardinal’s brilliant color year round.  My feeder always contains a mix of black oil sunflower seeds, cracked corn and chopped apples.  They usually arrive at the feeder with their mates, but I have seen both feed alone.


 

If you’re a beginner bird watcher, just follow my tips on how to attract cardinals.  They are one of the easiest backyard birds to attract.  They aren’t picky about feeders, so platform or hoppers will work.  They’re also not picky eaters. Any of the foods listed will meet their needs.  However, they truly love safflower seeds.  Happy bird watching!  You may also like:  How to Attract Catbirds to Your Backyard.

Remembering Gone With The Wind

                 
                                                                   Alicia Rhett played India Wilkes in "Gone With the Wind." (Everett Collection)

Gone With the Wind (GWTW) is my all time favorite movie.  I used to sit for hours watching it from beginning to end on my VHS tape.  I did step up, and purchase the DVD finally.  I’ve often wondered how Hollywood chooses the actors and actresses for roles.  At times, it seems impossible to have found a better actor or actress for their role they are in.  They couldn’t have picked a better actress than Vivian Leigh to play the starring role of Scarlett O’Hara.  She was a beautiful and talented actress. 

Today, I’m remembering India Wilkes one of Scarlett O’Hara’s enemies.  India Wilkes was played by Alicia Rhett, shown above.  Alicia Rhett passed away yesterday at age 98.  She actually auditioned for the role of Melanie Wilkes, but the role went to Olivia de Havillan. Alicia was offered and accepted the role as India Wilkes instead. In the movie Melanie Wilkes, played by Olivia de Havillan, comes from an inbreeding family. She marries her cousin and India’s brother, Ashley Wilkes, who Scarlett was in love with.  From there, they were intertwined. 

My fondest memory of India was when Scarlett called her an old maid during an argument.  It seems that her role of being an unmarried woman continued after filming.  Off screen, Alicia Rhett never married or had children. She returned to Charleston, SC after (GWTW) and continued to paint and do stage acting.  Much of her art is on display in her home town of Savannah, GA.    

There are 3 cast members who are still living, Olivia de Havilland, 97, who resides in Paris.  Mary Anderson, 93, who played Maybelle Merriweather; and Mickey Kuhn, 81, who played Beau Wilkes, Ashley and Melanie’s son.  
Gone With the Wind earned an Oscar and an Academy Award.  The period dresses and scenes were amazing.  It was a fascinating movie by all accounts.  Alicia Rhett, rest in peace and thanks for helping to make Gone With the Wind one of the best movies in American History.                               

How To Trace Your Ancestry


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how to trace your ancestry

Do you know who you are?  I’ve spent the last few months tracing my ancestry on Ancestry.com, and I must say that it has been quite an endeavor.  One that I’ve enjoyed so much I’ve decided to do a scrapbook.  I’ve traced my mother’s and father’s ancestry back three generations.  I know amazing, right.  I think it’s important to know who we are.  Once we know who we are, we will understand our greatness and our mission in life.  I also think it’s important to share our heritage with our children so they too can understand how great they are.  


I received a 30 day free trial with Ancestry.com.  The site was easy to use.  It asks for basic information like:  first and last names, places where you relatives may have lived, mother and father’s name if know, birthday etc.  You enter as much information that you have on the person and the systems returns information that you can browse and add to your family tree.  What’s cool about the site, is they do some of the tracing for you when you’re off-line.  For example, they return birth, marriage and death records that they think are connected to your family.  When you log back in, it will give you an indicator on the person that they may have information on.  I also liked that other members may be searching the same heritage line and may have pictures or other documentation that you can copy.  You can make your information public for others to view or you can make it private.       

I was able to trace my history back to slavery on my father’s side.  I was able to find the cemetery where my great, great, great grandfather is buried.  On my mother’s side of the family, my ancestors found the first African American community, Johnsontown, in West Virginia.  I’m excited to be able to pass this information on to my children and grandchildren with the hope that they will pass it on to their children. So many times we loose our heritage, and as a result we miss so many opportunities to be proud of who we are and what our ancestors accomplished.            



I was able to find an ancestry scrapbook, below, on Amazon for a good price.  I snatched it up quickly, the company, KCompany, is no longer making the book.   I really like the brown and turquoise colors and the slot on the album where I can add the family name.  For some reason brown and turquoise seem appropriate for ancestry photos. 
                                             
 
Some may see Ancestry.com as somewhat pricey, pricing may vary month to month, but it was worth the time and energy that it took to trace my roots.  I would advise you to try the free 30 day offer, so if you’re diligent you may be able to accomplish tracing a great deal of your heritage during that period.  If you’re interested in digging a little deeper into who you are, check out the site and make some memories for your family. 

Happy New Year

It’s 2014 and I want to wish each of my followers A Happy, Safe and Blessed New Year.  I appreciate each of your visits to Mother 2 Mother, and I hope to make my blog more engaging by posting helpful and interesting content in the new year.  Any suggestions that you have on how I can achieve this goal would be appreciated.  Please leave a comment and a means to contact you so we can discuss your ideas further.   



If you’re interested in guest posting on Mother 2 Mother, please send an email to Rhonda@gigglesnsugarkisses.com and the subject that you would be interested in writing about.  I’ll contact you to discuss a possible post and post date.  We’re picky, so professional writing skills are a must.  Post must be grammatically correct, spelling skills are essential and content must be unique. 


I wish each of you everything that your heart desires in the new year.  Blessings to each of you. 


Selecting Belle Peppers for Home Cooking

Today, I’m sharing gardening tips on selecting belle peppers.  If you want to experience the true flavor of belle peppers, you must have knowledge of how to select belle peppers for home cooking.

So, each year I plant a combination of belle, cayenne, and jalapeno in my backyard vegetable garden.  At the end of the season, I freeze the belle peppers, dry the cayenne, and pickle the jalapenos.

I love planting a variety of belle peppers.  Furthermore, I try to grow a variety of colors that include green, yellow, red and orange.  I even tried a white variety, but was unsuccessful.  All belle peppers start out green.  With patience, they will turn yellow, red and orange depending on what you have planted.
selecting belle peppers
Belle peppers are great in casseroles, omelets, sauces, chili and other dishes.  I also use my belle peppers in veggie trays,  pasta dishes, jambalaya and anything else I can cook up. The red, yellow and orange peppers make an impact in dishes.  They’re really pretty in omelets and vegetable trays too.  They give dishes a little color as well as flavor.  Presentation is everything when it comes to eating.

 

Selecting Belle Peppers

 

Know the difference between male and female belle peppers?  Using the right peppers will enhance the flavor of your dishes.  Males should be used in certain dishes and females in others.  That is why selecting male and female peppers is important.

 

  • Lesson 1 – Male peppers have 3 bumps on the bottom.

 

selecting belle peppers

 

 

  • Lesson 2 – Male peppers are usually a little taller and have less seeds than the female.  Most shoppers go for the biggest peppers; however, they don’t consider the dishes they will be preparing at home.  Male peppers  are better for cooking foods like chili, tomato sauce and other dishes that require heat.

 

 

selecting belle peppers

 

 

  • Lesson 3 – Female peppers have 4 bumps on the bottom. Females are more round and have a sweeter taste than the males.  I use these for vegetable trays, fresh salads and cold pasta dishes. However, they have more seeds than the male.

 

Finally, the next time you’re at the grocery store, use your new knowledge on selecting belle peppers.  Simply flip those babies over and check out the bumps.  Most importantly, make your selection according to the dish you’re preparing.

 

Using Suet Feeders for Backyard Birds

Today, I’m going to discuss using suet feeders for backyard birds.  Food sources for backyard birds become scarce during the winter.  So, I decided to put up a couple of suet feeders in addition to my regular feeders.   What is suet you ask?  Simply put, it’s fat mixed with corn, fruit, peanuts, hot peppers and/or  dehydrated insects.  Furthermore, it comes in a brick or log form.  The bricks fit into most suet feeder cages.

suet feeders for backyard birds

Also, you can use suet cakes year round.  So, they’re not just for winter feeding anymore.  That just happens to be the time of year I use them because the birds need the fat and protein.  If you’re going to use suet feeders for backyard birds in warmer months, I recommend using the No Melt Suet.  Check the package to ensure you have the No Melt version before you leave the store.  It’s easy to get the packages mixed up.  Also, using suet feeders are cheaper than buying bird seed.  So, if you don’t want to invest a lot of money in bird seed, a suet feeder is the way to go.

Furthermore, I’ve discovered that some birds prefer suet rather than seed.  Suet is important to birds, especially during the colder months.  It helps to keep them warm.  Mostly insect lovers like Mockingbirds, Orioles, Nuthatches, Woodpeckers and Chickadees flock to suet feeders.  I have been able to get my Woodpeckers and Chickadees to eat from my platform feeder too.  They love black oil sunflower seeds.

 


 

 

As a matter of fact, I really hoped to attract Orioles this past spring.  I tried using oranges this spring, but no luck.  I did manage to attract a Mockingbird and Catbirds.  They are both beautiful birds.  The Mocking Bird loves my bacon birdseed cookies.

 

 

suet feeders

 

 

The Downy and Red Bellied Woodpeckers are frequent visitors to the suet feeder.  I purchase the bricks made specifically for woodpeckers; however, I think they will eat any that contain nuts and fruit.  They love it.  Also, they will visit the platform feeder and indulge in the black oil sunflower seeds.

 

 

suet feeders for backyard birds

 

 

It’s cheaper, and the suet cakes last longer.  That’s if the squirrels, Starlings or Grackles don’t find the suet cages.  They can devour a cake or two in a day.  As a result, I purchased this bottom suet feeder to try to deter them.  So far it’s working.  I can put 3 of the suet cakes in this feeder.  The woodpeckers love it.  I have both Red-Bellied and Downy Woodpeckers that visit.  For larger woodpeckers like Flickers, the cage suet feeders are better.  They are large birds, and it seems easier for them to hold on to the cages rather than the bottom feeder.

 

 

suet feeders

 

What backyard birds visit you?  Do you feed them?  If so, what methods do you use to attract them?   Check out my other posts on attracting backyard birds before you leave.

 

suet feeders for backyard birds

 

 

This is a Downy Woodpecker on a cage suet feeder filled with raisins and cranberries.  So, you can get creative and use other food besides suet in your suet cages.

 

 

 

Shari’s Berries Review

I decided to splurge this Christmas and order a box of Shari’s Berries.  So, I’m sharing my Shari’s Berries Review.  I’ve seen the advertisement on TV and listened to the promotions on the radio for years.  And, they looked so delicious.  I finally gave in and ordered a box.   The lowest price was a 1/2 dozen at $19.99.  They offered an additional 1/2 dozen for $4.99 more so I ordered a dozen totally.  However, the shipping was quite expensive, $12.99.  Wow!  Because I had my heart set on those delicious strawberries, I decided to treat myself and ordered them anyway. 
Shari's Berry Review

The package that the berries were in was very nice.  The original packaging had an ice pack ensuring they arrived fresh and in tact.  The white bow gave it a little class.  And the box was sturdy.  The strawberries themselves was disappointing.  My reaction was what the hell?  I was expecting the berries to be more colorful and appetizing.  As you can see from the picture below, the presentation was not great.    Two were dipped in white chocolate, 2 in nuts, and 2 in chocolate chips.

 

 

Shari's Berries Review

 

 

My reaction went from what the hell to I paid good money for this?  Never again, and I mean never again.  I decided to try the strawberries, and I must admit the berries were fresh.  They were quite delicious actually and I did enjoy all of them.  So, the taste was much better than the presentation.  But, presentation is everything for that price.  I wondered what went through the company’s head before they shipped these out.

 

Shari's Berries Review

 

 

Finally, would I order them again, no.   Not for this price, and for the strawberry assortment I received.  I don’t know if everyone receives this particular assortment, but it was my destination.  It is supposedly their most popular request.  I felt deceived.  The beautifully decorated and delicious strawberries on TV and on their site was an enticement.  But, what I actually received wasn’t close.  Spending $40.00 to only be disappointed is not how I like to spend my money.  I hope my Shari’s Berries review has been helpful to you.

You may also like my Allenbelle Essentials Oils Review.

2013 White House Christmas Decorations

I love the White House decorations.  Each year I look forward to the First Lady unveiling the massive trees and display. The theme this year was Gather Around.  The theme focuses on holiday traditions and each tree will tell a story.  There are a total of 24 trees on display to the public, and than the Obama’s tree in their private residence totaling 25.  With the exception of the Obama’s personal tree, which will be decorated by Sasha and Malia, 83 volunteers from across the country participated in tree trimming, wreath hanging and other displays.  I think the trees and decorations are amazing.

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20 Stocking Stuffer Ideas for Teen Girls

Today, I’m sharing parenting tips on stocking stuffer ideas for teen girls.  We know that teenage girls can be difficult to purchase for and are usually the last and most difficult to purchase for many. Shopping for my daughter and teenage nieces was a mixed experience.  Figuring out what to buy was difficult, but once I went into the stores to start shopping for them it was fun.

I’ve eliminated the what to get for you.  I’ve put together a list of what has worked for me.  So, if you’re strapped for time, pick a few items from the list before you head out.  This will keep you from wondering around the store and reduce your shopping time.

One thing that I learned is most teenage girls are into makeup, fashion, movies, music, boys, and good food.  Think about that.  What makeup are you comfortable allowing your daughter to wear, lip gloss, nail polish, lipstick, eyeshadow?  Gift certificates are always a win.  

Google the top artist for teens, and listen to a sample of their songs.  Better yet, have your teen give give you a wish list.  Personally, I never asked for a wish list I ventured out on my own and must say I got lucky with my purchases.  

 

 

stocking stuffer ideas for teen girls

 

 

Stocking Stuffer Ideas for Teen Girls: 

 

  1. Nail polish in bright colors
  2. Gift certificate for a manicure or pedicure  (Big Hit)
  3. DVD
  4. Movie night gift basket or bag with Popcorn, Candy and a drink
  5. A Journal
  6. CD of their favorite artist
  7. Lip gloss
  8. Gift certificate to their favorite salon 
  9. Bath and Body products
  10. Loofah/sponges 
  11. Hand lotion for her purse
  12. Socks 
  13. Infinity scarf in her favorite color
  14. Perfume
  15. Hat and gloves
  16. Bangles
  17. Nail designs
  18. Gift certificate to a Cosmetic Counter such as Lancôme , Mac or Estee Lauder
  19. Pre-made Scrapbooks
  20. Magazine Subscription

 

 

 

stocking stuffer ideas for teen girls

 

 

Be sure to check out the bargain bins and clearance items too.  They have great deals on nail polish, movies, socks, hats gloves etc. Get creative and your imagination on a gift.   

 

Backyard Birds – Dark-eyed Junco Visits

Attracting backyard birds is a fun and interesting hobby.  I ‘ve had new visitors at my feeder recently, the Dark-eye Junco.  These backyard birds are also known as “snow birds”.  We had about 8 inches of snow, and they appeared on que.  They are beautiful birds, a grayish black with a white belly.  Some look almost coal black with a white belly.  They prefer colder climates, which explains why they have suddenly appeared at my feeder now that it has snowed.  Today, lets discuss how to attract Dark-eyed Junco to your backyard.

 

 

dark eyed junco

The Dark-eyed Junco visits backyard feeders in the winter, but breed in forests across Canada, the western U.S., and in the Appalachians.  I recently added a tube feeder to my feeding station, my tree, because the platform feeder holds the snow.  However, the Dark-eye Junco actually prefers the platform feeder.  They are called snow birds because they love the snow.  So, forging for seed buried under the snow in the platform feeder doesn’t seem to faze them.

They have interesting habits too.  I’ve seen them lay in the snow covered platform feeder and just chill.  Or, you will find them scouring the snow covered ground for dropped seed.

                                     Dark-eyed Junco
So, if you want to attract these entertaining birds to your backyard feeder, use a platform feeder.   and fill it with millet, bread crumbs, cracked corn or hulled sunflower seeds.  Platform feeders need to be emptied and clean more often than tubes or other feeders.  Why, because they are open to the elements.  Make sure the seed is fresh rather than wet and moldy.  I try to add fresh seed at least twice a week to my platform feeder.
Dark Eyed Junco
Furthermore, Dark-Eyed Junco like bread crumbs.  However, not just any bread is acceptable.  Make sure it is multi-grain.  Just like us, birds need to consume healthy foods.  As a result, rather than throw out the end of my multi-grain loaf that everyone refuses to eat and other pieces that are getting old,  I save them for the birds.  I stick them in the freezer.  I toast a slice and spread peanut butter on it.  The birds love it.
attracting Dark Eyed Juncos
Another trick to draw Dark-Eyed Juncos to your feeder is to spread birdseed on the ground.  Use a mix of black oil sunflower seeds mixed with cracked corn.  To avoid rodents or unwanted animals, limit the amount of seed that you spread on the ground.  I’m looking forward to watching my new visitors frolicking in our fresh snow.