Today, I’m sharing empowerment tips using inspirational divorce quotes. When we go through difficult times in our life finding something to life us up can be welcoming. I love quotes, and I can always find inspiration, motivation, or determination in them. Quotes are empowering, they help us plow ahead and out of a dark place. They help us find the light and allow it to penetrate our soul. They speak to us.
Inspirational Divorce Quotes for Women:
I love this quote by Gina Carey. Life is full of obstacles and challenges. I believe in taking them head on rather than dwelling on them. The sooner you face your challenge, the sooner you can come up with a plan and move forward.
Letting go of people and things can be difficult at times. When you finally get the strength and courage to walk away, pat your on the back. But, my best advice is walk away and don’t look back. Your future is ahead of you not behind you.
When you are going through a divorce, it’s a good idea to emerge yourself in things that you love. Just as important, is to surround yourself with people that you love. Try gardening, writing or doing crafts. Get those besties on the phone or out to dinner or lunch. Now is the time to make a life for yourself. Joining a gym, purchasing a treadmill or taking long walks are perfect ways to get rid of stress. Most importantly, hug your children tightly.
One thing that I have learned along the way is the fact that people outgrow each other. You decide that you want different things in life. You may see that the person you thought you married is no longer before you. People change and many factors play a part. I have learned that the same thing can happen with friendships. My advice is to embrace it or at least accept what has happened and let go. The sooner you accept it, the sooner you can start moving forward.
Unfortunately, letting go can be difficult, especially if the relationship is one-sided. By one-sided, I mean only one person is giving in the relationship. And, as a result only one person’s needs are being met. We don’t want to give up hope that the relationship can’t be saved. Or, you’re hoping that your husband will return to the man you fell in love with. Unfortunately, it is not to be. Don’t turn to husband or soon to be ex-husband for comfort. Get into counseling or call your sister or friend. Trust me, he isn’t interested in comforting you.
So, going through a divorce is just like grieving a death. What you had with that person is over, and it will never be again. You can’t stop it and you can’t change it. You must accept it and go through the grieving process. People grieve differently, but I can guarantee that you will survive. Not only will you survive, you will emerge a stronger and better person.
When it’s time to let go, it’s time to let go. Furthermore, don’t spend time and energy trying to rekindle the relationship. It’s like trying to get back into those jeans that you’re holding on to, but you will never wear again. Your relationship is that pair of jeans.
So, I’ve given this advice to many woman: stop waiting for people to do things for you. If you want flowers buy them or beauty yet start gardening. I did and I love it. If you want to go out to dinner, go. If you want to travel join a travel club. It’s up to you to define your life now.
Last, I hope you enjoyed my inspirational divorce quotes. Meditate on a few, and allow them to penetrate your soul.
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