Sunday’s Best Linkup – #227

Welcome to Week 227 of Sunday’s Best Linkup. We’ve started our We Remember You! theme in honor of Memorial Day this week. So we’re looking for all things relating to Memorial Day and red, white and blue. This can include tablescapes, party ideas, decorating ideas, activities for kids, recipes, crafts, outdoor spaces, flower arrangements, and more. So, blow the dust off those old posts and share them.  

 

 

 

 

 

Additionally, we also welcome other recipes, crafts, DIY, home makeover, gardening tips, SEO & blogging information, sewing projects, patio and deck makeovers, front porch makeover ideas, organization tips, ideas for backyard hot dog roasts, and more.

Anything goes, as long as it’s family friendly and you may linkup as many posts as you would like. Be sure to tell your friends, they will want to join the Sunday’s Best Linkup too.

So, each week your hosts will select their favorite post. The posts will be featured the following week. Also, an image from your post will be used on our linkup the following week along with a link back to your blog. As a result, be sure to check back to see if you’re a Sunday’s Best Featured Blogger. All Featured Bloggers will have their posts pinned to Rhonda’s Sunday’s Best Pinterest Board and Kim M. pins the weekly featured bloggers to her Sunday’s Best Pinterest Board too!

The post with the most clicks will be the Reader’s Choice post(s). We will be adding the winner to our Sunday’s Best Linkup featured bloggers.

All posts linking to Sunday’s Best Linkup will be promoted on Twitter. The Post With the Most Clicks will be selected. Monthly Themes will feature a post each week as well.

Contact rhonda@mother2motherblog.com or email one of our other hosts if you are interested in co-hosting.

 

Your Sunday’s Best Linkup Hosts Are:

Rhonda at Mother 2 Mother Kim at Life in a House Brittany at A Mama Tale

 

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Rhonda selected Summer Tablescape Ideas from Clean and Scentsible 
 
 
 
 
Tablescape Ideas
 
 

 

Kim selected Philly Cheese Steak Stuffed Peppers  from The Kitchen is My Playground  

 
 
 
 
Stuffed Pepper Recipe
 
 
 
 
Brittany selected 20 Super Cute Puppet Crafts for kids  from The Kindest Way  
 
 

 

crafts for kids

 

 

The Post with the Most Clicks

 

Brownie Cake Ice Cream Cones  from Mommy Evolution 

 
 
 
 
Dessert Recipes
 
 
 

 

Favorite Theme Post(s) – We Remember You!

 

 

Stenciled Patriotic Envelope Pillow from Fresh Vintage  

 
 
patriotic decor
 
 
 
 
and
 
 
 
Red White and Blue Strawberry Cheesecake Bites from  The Kitchen Is My Playground
 
 
 
red white blue desserts
 
 
 
and
 
 
One Board Bench from Kippi At Home  
 
 
 
Patriotic Decor
 
 
 
Last, congratulations to our featured bloggers! All of the posts were great, and we deeply appreciate each of you participating on Sunday’s Best Linkup. We have so many great posts that it gets difficult to choose a featured blogger. Finally, your hosts would like to invite all of you back to link up your post(s) again. We could select your post next week! Finally, while you’re here take a minute to visit these great blogs. It’s a great way to meet and connect with new bloggers. Be sure to PIN or share any posts that you like, we all appreciate a little love and be sure to connect with others on social media.

 

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4 Ways Parents Can Plan for Financial Emergencies

Planning for parenthood can be filled with joy.  Especially, when you’re thinking of your future family, the adventures you’ll have, and the love you’ll share. However, some parts of planning are much more serious than others. In between looking at paint swatches for the nursery and touring preschools, parents need to examine their financial reality.

When it comes to organizing your finances, there is no predicting the future.  But, you can plan for it. This is especially important when wondering how to stay afloat during emergencies.  Today, we’re sharing parenting tips on how parents can plan for financial emergencies. 

 

 

Start Emergency Savings

 While most families have a savings account, all families need an emergency fund.  A savings account can help you with big purchases such as vacations, back-to-school shopping, or replacing the tires on your car.  An emergency fund is your family’s safety net during times where you face a much larger financial burden.  For example, if you or your spouse are laid off or you are looking at a long hospital stay.  A solid emergency fund is roughly equal to three months of your household’s income.  It takes time to plan for financial emergencies and build an emergency fund.  So, any time you get big payouts, like a hearty income tax refund, be sure to set it aside.

 

Prepay for Funerals

 It’s an uncomfortable and unpleasant conversation to have, but pre-paying for your funeral expenses is an important topic to discuss. Not only does prepaying guarantee that your family will honor your memory and celebrate your life in a way you want, but it also helps save your children cash and prevent conflict during one of the most emotionally stressful times in their lives.  After all, the average funeral sets families back between $7,000 and $9,000.  This amount is based on factors such as where you live, whether you want to be buried or cremated, and what kind of memorial service you choose.

There are several ways to pre-pay your funeral costs. You can purchase a pre-need insurance plan through a funeral home or a more general final expense insurance policy, which offers the option of coverage for outstanding bills beyond your funeral. You can also set up a joint savings account with your children that provides the financial support to make your final arrangements.

 

 

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Purchase Insurance

 Now that you have a child to consider, insuring you and your partner’s lives and well-being can mean a more stable life for your child should a crisis occur. You will help ensure they can maintain their lifestyle when you purchase life insurance, disability insurance, and homeowners or renters insurance. These three are crucial for helping your whole family maintain a low stress level during an unfortunate event. Disability insurance is important if your work relies on your body.  If a tragedy occurs, you could still have a cash flow even if you’re not working.

 

Work a Second Job

 If you really want to fatten up your finances, you can weigh the pros and cons of getting a second job.  It can be as easy as delivering pizzas or as complex as serving as a professional consultant. A second job is a great way to shovel money into your emergency fund, pay off debt or begin saving for child care. In today’s gig economy, many parents make extra cash driving for a rideshare like Uber, freelancing or working part-time online jobs. Unless you plan on working a second job forever, don’t count this incoming cash as part of your regular salary. Use it instead as a means to work on padding up your savings or paying down your debt.

Starting a family costs money. In fact, it can cost more than $200,000 to raise a child in the United States. Smart parents plan ahead as much as they can from birth to death, and from preschool to college. While financial planning may seem like a joyless chore, you’ll have peace of mind and extra time with your loved ones.  So, the sooner you starting a plan for financial emergencies the sooner you can relax and enjoy life.

You may also like:  15 Signs That You’re In Debt

 

6 Tips To Boost Your Self Esteem

Today, I’m sharing tips on how to boost your self-esteem. So, do you need a self-esteem boost?  A self-esteem boost is a great way to become empowered again and renew your faith.  At one point in my life I saw myself as an attractive, sexual, and vibrant woman.  I looked in the mirror one day and I realized that I had bags under my eyes, more gray hair, and I looked tired.  I wondered what had happened. When I looked back over the years I realized that I had lost myself.  I had lost myself while I worked diligently to be a good mother, I was divorced and was pulling double duty with most things.  

 

 

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I had become a wife, mother, taxi driver, nose wiper, chef, CEO, house keeper, medicine dispenser, CFO, and it all led to exhaustion.  Being a mother has been my greatest joy.  But, it requires so much.  Even when we think we can’t do it anymore or we have nothing else to give, we reach down and find more and do more.  As women we can become so entrenched in our roles that we can loose ourselves along the way.  We wake up one morning, and wonder what happen to our self-esteem.

So, I had my house remodeled several years ago.  My main focus was the master bath. I have a huge garden tub that I wanted to refresh.  Additionally, the shower needed a makeover.  So, I decided to install a rain shower head.  And, I tiled around the vanity, shower and tub.

I stood in stores for hours looking until I found the perfect tile.  I even had a seat constructed in my shower so I could carefully shave my legs, and a heated ceramic tile floor installed.  After the project was finished, I surrounded my tub with beautiful candles and spa towels.  It was my favorite room in the house.  It’s funny, I can’t remember the last time that I soaked in that tub.  Let alone sipped a cup of tea and enjoyed the flicker of the flames on the candles. You may be wondering what I did to get back on top.

 

How to Boost Your Self-esteem: 

 

1.  Know that you’re important – You’re an entity in your home too, and it’s okay to love yourself. Make time to do the things that you enjoy such as having a glass of wine, scrapbooking, reading, cross-stitching, watching your favorite TV show, or playing a computer game. Whatever you enjoy, take time to enjoy it.

2.  It’s okay to not respond to every need that everyone else has – Trying to please very one will wear you out, lead to stress, and health problems. Remember you need your rest too.

3.  Accept responsibility for where you are now –  Don’t blame your kids or your husband, you have the power to say I’m tired I need to rest, I need help or I need time for myself and take it.

 

self esteem

 

 

4.  Become determined and self-reliant – Do what you can around your house, rather than sitting around waiting on your husband or significant to do everything for you. Take the stress off yourself because you’re waiting for someone to complete a project for you. It could also take the stress of your husband or significant other too.  This includes painting a room, building those raised garden beds, painting the deck furniture, cleaning out the garage etc. There’s some great bloggers out there that can show you how.

5.  Stop trying to take on everything – There are no shortcuts in life, it can be brutal at times.  We must learn to let things go, take a deep breath and exhale. Set priorities and learn to walk away when things get overwhelming. Tomorrow is another day, you can get it done then.

6.  Budget your money and treat yourself  – If you are a SAHM, get a pay check for your work inside the home. Purchase a bouquet of flowers for yourself or treat yourself to a manicure, pedicure or facial. Not your thing, buy a new dress and have a monthly date night with your husband or significant other. It will recharge your batteries!

It’s important to reclaim your self-worth and start treating myself like the queen that your are. I have learned that it’s okay to make myself number one occasionally.  Being mom, wife, and grandmother are wonderful roles, but we should never loose ourselves. They aren’t inclusive of who we are.  We hope that you have found our tips on how to boost your self esteem helpful.

Please leave us a tip on how you boost your self-esteem. We may want to incorporate your tip into our routine.

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Assertiveness Quotes to Empower Women

Do you struggle with asserting yourself?  Finding a balance between being assertive and not being aggressive can be tricky.  Being assertive means being able to say no without feeling guilty.  It requires you to get a backbone and stop allowing others to intrude on you and enter your personal space.  Today, I’m sharing tips to empower yourself  with assertiveness quotes

 

 

quotes for women

“If you behave like a doormat, expect to be stepped on and don’t complain about it.”
Suzette Haden Elgin

“I’m a woman / Phenomenally. / Phenomenal woman, / That’s me.”
Maya Angelou

“The minute you settle for less than you deserve, you get even less than you settled for.”
Maureen Dowd

“The basic difference between being assertive and being aggressive is how our words and behavior affect the rights and well being of others.”
Sharon Anthony Bower

“Too many of us fail to fulfill our needs because we say no rather than yes, yes when we should say no.”
William Glasser

“Every time we speak, we choose and use one of four basic communication styles: assertive, aggressive, passive and passive-aggressive.”
Jim Rohn

“My theory is that if you look confident you can pull off anything – even if you have no clue what you’re doing.”
Jessica Alba

 

assertiveness tips

 

 

 

“Those are my principles, and if you don’t like them… well, I have others.”
Groucho Marx

“You create your opportunities by asking for them.”
Patty Hansen

“It takes a great deal of bravery to stand up to our enemies, but just as much to stand up to our friends.”
J. K. Rowling

“Like what you do, and then you will do your best. ”
Katherine Johnson

 

 

quotes

 

“The duty we owe ourselves is greater than that we owe others.”
Louisa May Alcott

“If you don’t have a seat at the table, you’re probably on the menu.”
Elizabeth Warren

“I encourage people to remember that “no” is a complete sentence.”
Gavin de Becker

“When fools come for a piece of you with their shenanigans and tomfoolery let them come. However, remember to give them enough that they won’t ask for seconds.”
Donavan Nelson Butler

 

Most importantly, think about these assertiveness quotes and start asserting yourself.   It will change your relationships and raise your confidence and self-esteem.

 

 

 

 

Sunday’s Best Linkup – #226

Welcome to Week 226 of Sunday’s Best. We’ve started our We Remember You! theme in honor of Memorial Day this week. So we’re looking for all things relating to Memorial Day and red, white and blue. This can include tablescapes, party ideas, egg dying tips, decorating ideas, activities for kids, recipes, crafts, outdoor spaces, flower arrangements, and more. So, blow the dust off those old posts and share them.      

 

 

Additionally, we also welcome other recipes, crafts, DIY, home makeover, gardening tips, SEO & blogging information, sewing projects, patio and deck makeovers, front porch makeover ideas, organization tips, ideas for backyard hot dog roasts, and more.

Anything goes, as long as it’s family friendly and you may linkup as many posts as you would like. Be sure to tell your friends, they will want to join the party too.

So, each week your hosts will select their favorite post. The posts will be featured the following week. Also, an image from your post will be used on our linkup the following week along with a link back to your blog. As a result, be sure to check back to see if you’re a Sunday’s Best Featured Blogger. All Featured Bloggers will have their posts pinned to Rhonda’s Sunday’s Best Pinterest Board and Kim M. pins the weekly featured bloggers to her Sunday’s Best Pinterest Board too!

The post with the most clicks will be the Reader’s Choice post(s). We will be adding the winner to our Sunday’s Best Linkup featured bloggers.

All posts linking to Sunday’s Best Linkup will be promoted on Twitter. The Post With the Most Clicks will be selected. Monthly Themes will feature a post each week as well.

Contact rhonda@mother2motherblog.com or email one of our other hosts if you are interested in co-hosting.

 

Your Sunday’s Best Linkup Hosts Are:

Rhonda at Mother 2 Mother Kim at Life in a House Brittany at A Mama Tale

 

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Mother 2 Mother: Please like Rhonda’s Facebook Page, follow her on Twitter;, Google+, Pinterest, BlogLovin, or subscribe/join her blog on the right sidebar before you leave.

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Rhonda selected Cherry Cola Layer Cake  from Cookie Dough and Oven Mitt 
 
 
 
cake recipes
 
 
 

Kim selected Whipped Goat Cheese Prosciutto from Mommy Evolution  

 
 
appetizers
 
 
 
 
 
 
Brittany selected The Best Planner Review  from Moms Small Victories  
 
 

planners

 

The Post with the Most Clicks

White Twill Slipcovers  from Kippi at Home  

 
 
 
thrifting tips
 
 
 
 

 

Favorite Theme Post(s) – Happy Mother’s Day

 

Last Minute DIY Mother’s Day Gift Ideas  from The Boon Docks Blog  

 
 
 
 
Mother's Day Gift Ideas
 
 
and
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Kid's Mother Day Ideas
 
 
and
 
 
DIY Flower Mother’s Day Gift  from Décor Craft Design 
 
 
 
 
Kid's Mother's Day Gift Ideas
 
 
Last, congratulations to our featured bloggers! All of the posts were great, and we deeply appreciate each of you participating on Sunday’s Best Linkup. We have so many great posts that it gets difficult to choose a featured blogger. Finally, your hosts would like to invite all of you back to link up your post(s) again. We could select your post next week! Finally, while you’re here take a minute to visit these great blogs. It’s a great way to meet and connect with new bloggers. Be sure to PIN or share any posts that you like, we all appreciate a little love and be sure to connect with others on social media.

 

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35 Items College Students Need

Today, I’m sharing parenting tips on items college students need.  I don’t believe there’s one item on the list that I didn’t purchase or send money to purchase at some point. Do you have a child or relative who is college bound?  They’re going to need your help getting prepared for college, trust me.  Mom and dad aren’t going to be around for a wakeup call, to fix breakfast or to get them from point A to B.  They will need to grow up quickly, and it’s not going to be easy.  Our jobs as parents are to love them from afar and help them out where we can.  As a result, 

 

College Student Gift Ideas

 

Items College Students Need: 

 

  • Gift/Gas Cards – The top item on the list of items college students need is a gift card.  All college students can use gas or a special gift.  Also, gift cards can be used to purchase a book or other items on campus.
  • Snack Items/Cookies/Drinks – Next, chips, cookies, energy drinks and bars are always welcome for those late night study groups.
  • Instant Soup/Cans of Tuna/Chicken – Cans of tuna and chicken are great ways for protein.   Instant soups and noodles are perfect for a quick meal on a cold day too.
  • Plates/Forks/Spoons/Bowls/Microwavable Dishes – These items will come in handy when ordering pizza, making sandwiches or eating salads in the dorm room.
  • Paper Towels/Napkins – At home or college, there will be spills, and a need to wipe those greasy pizza hands and mouths.
  • Keurig/Coffee/Coffee Mug/Tea/Honey – My daughter wasn’t a coffee drinker, but she loves tea and honey. The Keurig was perfect for making individual cups.

 

 

gift ideas for college students

 

 

 

  • Highlighters/Mechanical Pens/Notebooks/Folders – These items come in handy.  Eventually, highlighters dry up or get lost.  Also, folders bend and notebooks get used. Each semester brings a new need.
  • Wrinkle Releaser/Febreze – Wrinkle releaser is perfect for those mornings when you don’t have time to iron.  Your college student will appreciate both.  Especially, Febreze on those days when they want to wear those jeans one more day before washing them.
  • Tooth Paste/Floss/Waterpik/Mouth Wash – Taking care of your teeth is important at home and school.
  • Shampoo/Conditioner/Flat Iron/Curling Iron/Detangle Comb – Students still like to look good.
  • Body Lotion/Razors/Shaving Cream – Keeping the skin hydrated and smooth is still important.
  • Loofah/Spa Items/Body Wash – To a college student, these are luxury items.  So, be generous.
  • Bath Tissue/Air Fresher/Disinfectant – Next, having individual items can be heaven sent.  There’s no arguments about who used the last roll or emptied the last can of spray.

 

 

gift ideas for college students

 

 

  • Wireless Printer – Every college student has term papers to write and rewrite.  It’s easier at times to print papers, schedules etc.
  • Printer Cartridges/Compressed Air to Clean Keyboard –  Products for computer cleaning and maintenance will come in handy.
  • First Aid Kit – Unfortunately, accidents happen.  It could be a cut, scrape, or burn.  Being prepared is important.
  • Rolls of Quarters/Detergent/Dryer Sheets/Laundry Basket – Doing laundry doesn’t end because you’re in college.  Unfortunately, washer and dryers take quarters and clothes can’t be cleaned with detergent.  Dryer sheets will remind the student of home.
  • Bed Sheets/Comforter/Pillows – Additional items that college students need is bedding.  Having a nice, clean bed is essential to getting a good night’s sleep.  This applies to dorms or apartments.  So, fresh sheets, a plum comforter, and heathy pillows are essential.
  • Towels/Washcloths –  Oversized towels and washcloths are essential items for a college student.
  • Picture Frames and Photo Albums –  Making memories in college is important. I remember my daughter wanting special frames to house her dance team photos.  Additionally, specials nights out with friends, and with the love of life who is now her husband.
  • Subscription to Netflix, Hulu etc. –  Being able to watch your favorite shows in college is a luxury.  Being able to watch them in the privacy of your room rather than a common room is even better.  Give them a subscription to Netflix or Hulu.  It’s a perfect gift.
  • Footbath/Nail Polish/File/Clippers/Manicure Items – I remember my daughter and her roommates giving each other manicures and pedicures.  They enjoyed painting each other nails and experimenting with makeup.
  • Shower Caddy/Shower Cap –  Next,  don’t forget the shower storage items. A means to store shampoo, conditioner and body wash is essential. Essentially, if they will be sharing a bathroom in a common area.
  • Diffuser/Oils –  So, I replaced burning candles with diffusing essential oils.  And, I love them.  They’re great for relaxing, keeping calm and staying centered.

 

 

gift ideas for college students

 

 

 

  • Duct Tape/Screw Driver/Pliers/Wrench –  Although we may not want to think about things coming apart, they do.  Throw in some nails, picture hangers and screws too.  These are great gift ideas for college students that they won’t think of.
  • Charging Station –  Additionally, charging stations are great for charging a phone, tablet, Kindle or other items in one place.
  • Fire Stick/Smart TV/Printing/Media Streaming Device
  • Bed Support Pillow –  Great for watching TV or studying on their bed.
  • Storage Crates – Great for  storing movies, papers or using as a table.
  • Ironing Board/Iron – Table top ironing boards are perfect. 
  • DSR Camera – Capturing memories throughout college years is important.  It only happens once, so encourage your son or daughter to capture as many memories as possible.
  • Alarm Clock – There won’t be any knocks on the door to get up.  As a result, give them an alarm clock to get them up and out.
  • Robe/Slippers – There’s nothing better than being able to wrap up in a nice warm robe and slippers after a shower in a cold dorm room.
  • Shelves – Remember, dorm rooms are small.  So, shelves are practical for housing books, pictures or other mementos.
  • Refrigerator – Last, cold beverages, storing meals and left overs is a college student’s dream.  Make sure it has a small freezer section for healthy dinners.

 

 




 

 

Finally, we hope that you found our list of items college student need useful.  I guarantee as the mother of a college graduate, every item will be beneficial.  You’ll actually purchase most of them more than once!  You may also like:  6 Ways to Save on College Tuition and Cool Things for College Students.

 

 

12 Things to Do in Atlanta Georgia

Today, I’m sharing travel destinations and tips on Things to Do in Atlanta.  Atlanta is one of my favorite places to visit because of its diversity.  It has something for everyone, and has an abundance of history on civil rights.  It’s great for families, a girl’s trip or a couples get away.  Because of Atlanta’s diversity, it’s a great place for the history buff.

 

 

Atlanta, GA

 

 

Here’s a list of things to do in Atlanta:

 

  • World of Coca Cola – This is a great family activity, especially if you’re a coke lover.  I loved the Coco-Cola Bear, and the tasting area.  They have all the coke flavors including Coca‑Cola, Diet Coke, Coke Zero, and Cherry Coke to name a few.  Also, a tasting station by country is also there.  It includes: Asia, Europe, Latin America, and North America.  Drinks that are unique to each region is offered.  There’s a great gift shop, so be sure to pick up a sovuneir.
  • State Capitol – My brother was a Georgia State Representative for many years.  So, visiting the state capitol was high on my list. The Capitol Building boasts an impressive gold-dome.  If you’re interested in a guided or self-guided tour head over and check out what’s offered.

 

 

Martin Luther King

 

 

  • MLK Center – The Martin Luther King center is filled with history of the civil right movement.  I actually became emotional when I saw the wagon that carried Dr. King’s body through Atlanta for his funeral.  There’s a lot of history at the center, and I suggest that every family visit.
  • Centennial Olympic Park Olympic Park has free concerts and other activities for the Fourth of July Celebration, Wednesdays and family day on the fourth Saturday.  There’s plenty of photo opportunities too.

 

 

Atlanta, GA

 

 

  • Georgia Aquarium  – Atlanta hosts the largest aquarium in the United States, and the second largest aquarium in the world.   The aquarium has sharks, Beluga Whales, African penguins and more.
  • CNN Studio –  You can see the CNN Studio from Olympic Park.  Contact the studio if you would like a tour.
  • Ebenezer Baptist Church – Both Martin Luther King, Jr., and his father, known as Daddy King, were pastors at Ebenezer Baptist Church.  Dr. King held the position until his death in 1968.

 

 

Martin Luther King

 

  • MLK Jr. Birth Home  – Also, my sister and I visited the childhood home of Dr. Martin Luther King.  What a memorable and chilling day.   We did not go inside; however, it is definitely worth a trip to experience where this historical civil right leader grow up.
  • Children’s Museum – Prepare for a day of science, health and interactive activities.   Appropriate for ages 1 – 8 years of age.
  • Jimmy Carter Presidential Library – The Carter Presidential Library and Museum houses the life of President Jimmy Carter.  You can find information from his childhood to his work around the world.
  • Lego Land Lego Land is appropriate for children 3-10 years old.  It features more than two million LEGO® bricks.  There is also a café and a 4 D Cinema.
  • Zoo Atlanta  –  Finally, a zoo that has something for everyone.  It’s packed with activities, so check out the activities for the day.

 

How to Attract Rose-breasted Grosbeaks

The Rose-breasted Grosbeak is one of the most beautiful birds to visit my backyard.  The red, black and white males are stunning.  And, their thick bills make you wonder who are you?  What kind of bird are you?   If you are a backyard bird lover, I have a few tips on how to attract Rose-breasted Grosbeaks to you backyard too.  So, lets get started.

 

 

 

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I had just switched my feeder, which had a mixture of sunflower, safflower, cracked corn, peanuts pieces and veggies to Safflower feeder.  Safflower seeds helps to eliminate Starlings and Crackles from devouring the feeders.  Most Starlings and Crackles aren’t fond of Safflower.  However,  songbirds love it.  Within days of the switch, I noticed a new bird at the feeder.  I looked at her and thought to myself she looks like the sparrow, but she’s larger.  Is she a new visitor?  Yes, she was.  It was a female Grosbeak.

 

 

backyard birds

 

Her partner appeared a little later and took my breath away. This is the male Rose-breasted Grosbeak.  He was stunning, and provided me with hours of joy.  He returned to the feeder again and again to enjoy the treats.   I first noticed the male hanging out on a branch.  His rose colored bib caught my attention.  I wondered if it was a wood-pecker initially.  Finally, he finally made his way to the feeder.  And, I realized I had a new visitor and a beauty at that.  It’s these moments that excite the backyard bird watcher. Always have your camera or binoculars ready, you never know when a new visitor will appear.

 

 

backyard birds

 

 

If you’re wondering how to attract Rose-breasted Grosbeaks, here are a few tips:

  • Offer Black-oil Sunflower Seeds or Safflower Seeds –  Add Safflower and/or Black-oil seeders to your feeders in the spring.  These seeds are their favorite foods.  I have Safflower seeds in mine.  And,  he visited the feeder at least 5 or 6 times to devour the tasty treats.
  • Offer raw peanuts, they love them.
  • Use a hopper or platform feeder
  • Provide fruit – Furthermore, the Rose-breasted Grosbeak love elderberries, blackberries, raspberries, and mulberries.
  • Make sure they have access to a bird bath or other means of water –   I have a wet weather stream that runs through my property.  Normally, it only runs if we have a large amount of rain.  However, it has been running for an entire year.  The birds love it.
  • Leave nesting materials –  Also, the female uses dried leaves, sticks, weeds, and other earth materials to build her nest.
  • Breeding season is from May to September.  Plan accordingly.

 

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Additionally, if you’re unable to bring them to your backyard, they love hanging out in parks and orchards.  Plan a morning or afternoon stroll through your local park or a farmer’s orchard.  Get permission first, if you decide to go the farm route.  Furthermore, the Rose-breasted Grosbeak likes woody areas.  Last, you may also like:  How to Attract Catbirds to Your Backyard.

 

The History of Mother’s Day

 

 

Have you ever wondered how Mother’s Day came about?  I’ve wondered, so I decided to do some research.  The day originated in my state, West Virginia.    I was surprised to discover that fact.  A lady by the name of Anna Jarvis of Grafton, WV started Mother’s Day.  The history of Mother’s Day tells us that it originally started as a memorial to Anna Jarvis’ mother.  She passed away in 1907.  Knowledge is power and knowing the history of Mother’s Day is empowering.  

 

 

 

She decided to campaign to make it a nationally recognized holiday.  In 1914, she succeeded.  Furthermore, by  1920, Anna Jarvis had become disappointed with the holiday.  She spent the rest of her life campaigning against it. As with everything in this country, it had become too commercialized.  Businesses were promoting flowers, greeting cards and boxes of chocolates for Mother’s Day gifts. They were profiting from what was supposed to be a simple day to recognize mothers and all that they had done in their role.

As a matter fact, Anna was so upset with their greed that she was actually arrested for disturbing the peace while protesting.  She stated that she wished she had never started the holiday.  Most importantly, she had become so bitter as a result of the commercialization, she died in poverty.  She also died unmarried and without children. What a sad ending to what started as a beautiful tribute to her mother.

I agreed that we are the most commercialized country in the world. We tie a dollar bill to anything and everything.  Statistics show people spend approximately $2.6 billion on flowers and $1.53 billion on pampering spa treatments, manicures and pedicures for Mother’s Day.

The history of Mother’s Day remains an important part of American History.  Although Anna Jarvis became frustrated, I think people should be able to spend their money how they choose.  If recipients of the gifts enjoy them, that makes the gift even better.  We all have a choice, buy or not buy.   I guess if I was in Anna Jarvis’ shoes, my thoughts may be different.  The best Mother’s Day gifts are at home dinners with my daughter, son-in-law and grandchildren.

As a matter of fact, I believe that we as mothers have a very important role in raising our children and grandchildren.  Just as important, mothers  shouldn’t just be recognized on the second Sunday of May.  After all, we are mothers 356 days a year 24 hours a day for the rest of our life.

So, there we have the history of Mother’s Day.  Finally, I hope that you spend the day relaxing and doing what you enjoy, and if you get a chance leave me a comment on yours thoughts of Anna Jarvis and Mother’s Day.   You may also  like 15 Mother’s Day Gift Ideas.

 

 

How to Prepare for Being a Mother Again

If you already have kids, and you have taken a break to build your career, or to focus on creating the right family environment, chances are that you might be worried about whether or not you can go through the process again.  Finding out that you will be a mother and thinking about how to prepare for being a mother again can be challenging.  But, also very exciting. You can rely on the support of your kids and family, and you will be able to grow. First, however, you will need to get rid of the frustration to make the most out of these few special months. Find out more below.

 

 

Pregnancy Tips

 

Check You Are Physically Ready

One of the things you will have to do when you find yourself pregnant again after not thinking about having more kids is to prepare your body for the challenge. There are loads of physical changes you will go through.  And, you will need to ensure that you are ready. Get a general health checkup.  Additionally, find out whether or not you will need to take supplements.  Furthermore, talk to your practitioner about the risks and how to avoid them.  Especially, if you are over 40.

Take Care of Your Mental Health

The next thing you have to do is make sure that you have the right mindset to start raising kids again.  First, you might be tired, or exhausted, or simply tied up with the school and organizing family life. It is crucial that you ask for help from your family members if you need it.  And, make sure that you are able to focus on preparing yourself for the pregnancy and welcoming a new family member. You may have to dig deep, and this might be the right time to take some time off to focus on your spiritual well being.

Get Your Family on Board

If you have other kids, who are older, or school aged, you will definitely face some kind of jealousy.  So, you may have to sit down with your kids and partner to discuss the changes the arrival of the new baby will bring forward.  Get them on board, so you will be able to rely on their help and moral support. If your kids are smaller, you will have to explain to them that having a new sibling will be exciting, but there will certainly be challenges.

 

 

pregnancy tips

 

Find the Right Doctor

It will be a good idea to find a doctor you can trust.  Figuring out how to prepare for being a new mother can be unsettling at times.  It might have been a couple of years since you had your last baby.  If so, this means that you will have to find out about the latest trends and screenings.  So, ensure that you are in good hands and have a great birth without any complications.

Take Advantage of Technology

There are some great devices that will take the anxiety out of your pregnancy. You should take advantage of the devices and health monitoring apps available. If you don’t want to worry about your baby’s health or your own, you might want to check out some of the latest technological inventions introduced in maternity care. For example, Bloom Life Can Time Braxton Hicks Contractions.  So, check it out so you will know when to grab your bags and head to the hospital.

Prepare the Family for the New Lifestyle

It is also a good idea to determine if  family members are ready for the change in their lifestyle.  Also, you can you meet their emotional and physical needs. It might be the case that your kids will have to take the school bus instead of getting a ride from you.  No matter what type of changes you  introduce, always sit down and discuss it with the kids and your partner.

Embrace the Moment

Motherhood is one of the best experiences in the world.  So, it is important that you prepare for being a mother and enjoy it. Take a step back from your business, outsource some of the processes if you can, and make the most out of your time alone. Become less busy, so you can ensure you are providing the best care for your family.

Most importantly, you will have to make sure that you are comfortable with the changes.  Also, make sure your family is ready for the challenges and new lifestyle. Choose the right doctor and plan carefully.  Make sure you look after number one, as your new baby is relying on you.