Today, I’m sharing parenting advice on moving with kids. There’s perhaps no bigger change in a child’s life than moving to a new home. As a result, it’s extremely important for all parents to make sure their children are a part of the moving process. Also, have a conversation with your kids about the reason for the move. And, ask how the child feels about it. It can make the entire process much easier.
Before the move, it can be very beneficial to involve your kids in planning for the move as early as possible. Allowing your kids to choose their new bedrooms or how the room will be decorated gives them a feeling of control. If your children contribute to the move early in the process, they may get excited about the move.
Unfortunately, some parents may believe that not disclosing the news about the move will lessen the shock. But, in reality keeping it a secret can make your children feel anxious. It’s important to make a family effort to explore the new surrounding area together after the move. This can help them become more familiar with their new neighborhood as well as find their new favorite places.
Most importantly, make an effort to show your children that although they’re in a new home, their lives haven’t changed. Moving with kids doesn’t have to be a traumatic experience for the children. This can include playing games as a family, going out to dinner on a particular night of the week, or a bedtime routine. Keep some kind of consistency in your kids’ lives during a big life event. It can be powerful for them. The infographic details some of the most effective ways you can help your children adjust to the process of moving.
Author bio: Kate Houston is Director of Client Services at Ward North American. She attended Minot State University and has more than 25 years of experience in the transportation and relocation industry.
We moved house last summer, 150 miles down the country and we kept the kids involved every step of the way. It is such a big thing but was the best thing ever for us x
Hi Kim. Moving can be scary for children. They’re leaving behind friends, school mates, and the comfort of what was once their home. I think involving the kids is a great idea, and helps eliminate the unknown. Thanks for stopping by. Hope you visit again.