Blogging Tips from Professional Blogger – Life In a House of Testosterone

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Welcome to Blogging Tips From Professional Blogger Part II.  Today I am interviewing the witty Kim Miller from Life in a House.   Kim will continue to enlighten us with blogging tips and tricks for those who wish to grow their blog.  Lets begin the interview:

1. I’m always looking for a blog that makes me laugh and a blogger who keeps it real. We connected and bonded immediately, so I would like my readers to get a glimpse of who you are.  Please tell them a little about yourself and your blog.

Hi there everyone! I’m the slightly crazed mom and owner of Life in a House of Testosterone. I am a 48 year old mom to three beautiful children – April (1988), Jonathan (1999), and Tre (2003).  I live on the outskirts of Richmond, VA with The Man Thing (aka hubby) and our four-legged daughter, Mollyanna. (supposedly
she’s the menfolk’s dog since THEY are the ones who wanted her and THEY are the ones who swore that they would walk, feed, and groom her every single day – ha!  I can count on one hand the amount of times that has happened in the 5 years we’ve owned her!
)

As for me – I grew up in Cressona, PA,  little town not far from Lancaster and Hershey.  Born and raised in the country,  I grew up on my grandparents farm (Sunnybrook Farm).  I married April’s  father and moved to Jacksonville, NC when I was 19.  We lived there for 7 years before her  father and I divorced. He went off to Parris Island, SC to become a drill instructor, and April and I packed our bags and moved to Richmond with a
girlfriend of mine and her four boys.  I have a brother and sister who still live back home, both of my parents have passed away so its just the three of us and our families.

I’m a glass is half-full kind of gal.  An  Aquarius if you’re wondering about my astrological sign.  My due date was Valentine’s Day.  However, I arrived early.  Furthermore, I couldn’t stay put for 3 more days.  I have a bit of a daredevil streak in me  and I’m willing to try most anything at least once.  You want me to go cliff diving or something equally dangerous, you’re going to have to supply me with generous quantities of Pink Moscato.  A girl has to have her limits!

Life in a House of Testosterone has been a labor of love for the past 11 years. Today actually – April 11 – is my 11th year blogging.  I started out on LiveJournal, then moved to Blogger.  When I was on blogger, I named my blog The MAD White Woman.  However, in 2012 when I decided to become a professional, full-time blogger, I changed the name to Life in a House of Testosterone.  The following year I made the leap to a self-hosted WordPress blog and haven’t looked back.

2.  Life in a House of Testosterone is very diverse. You blog about recipes, promote giveaways, review products, and participate in link parties and Blogger OPPs. What is your strategy for obtaining items for reviews, giveaways and sponsorships?  Also, how important is it for bloggers to participate in link parties and what are the benefits for them?

I hate being put into a niche, because life is not black and white.  It’s messy and all over the place.  My life deals with a million different things each and every day. Why should your blog be just one aspect of your life?    So, another one of my blogging tips is to write about anything and everything.  Oh gosh … when I became a professional blogger – I was absolutely dying to be a part of the review/giveaway circuit.  I mean, how cool is it to have companies sending you stuff for free to review?  So, I paid attention, and I watched the bloggers that I wanted to be like to see how they were getting their stuff.  I  would send out emails to these companies and nothing. Nada. Zip. So I asked a friend of mine (a fellow blogger) how she got started. She told me three key things to remember:

(1) Don’t be discouraged when it feels like every response is a “no” because the very next one could be a “yes” for a campaign that you REALLY wanted to be a part of;
(2) Network – look for Facebook Groups that share blogger opportunities, sponsored posts, set up Google Alerts for keywords like “bloggers wanted” and
(3) Never give up.

I was rejected by several pretty big name companies over the past two years.  This year I have the pleasure of being a part of the Chick-Fil-A Moms as well  as the HP Smart Mom Panel. I receive several gift cards usually every other month for free menu items at Chick-Fil-A in exchange for sharing our purchases on social media and telling our family and friends what we think of their food.

Hewlett Packard was kind enough to send each of the moms on the panel their new HP-Envy 5660 all in one printer to review earlier this year.  I was also accepted as a Best Buy Blogger right before the holidays last year. The work that I’ve done with them earned me enough to afford the iPod Touch 5th Generation that my son wanted for Christmas (over $240 with all that he wanted). Where did I purchase it? Best Buy, naturally!

The next two companies on my radar are Microsoft and to become a Disney Social Media Mom. If it is the last thing that I do on this earth, I will have an expense paid press trip to Walt Disney World and Epcot Center in Orlando, Florida before I die. My best advice that I can give to you is don’t give up. If you want to work with a particular company – Do Your Research. Find out who their PR (public relations) person is. Call them, email
them, find out what events they have coming up that may be in your area that you can attend. Google them! Follow other bloggers who have worked, or are currently working with that company. Ask them how they got the chance to be a Brand Ambassador, or to be a part of their panel. Most bloggers will be happy to tell you! Follow them on social media, literally become an online stalker of the companies that you want to work with, interact with them, share their Facebook posts, re-tweet their tweets, do whatever it takes for them to notice you.

Above all else though – Be Sincere. Another one of my blogging tips is to not go after a company just because of what you may or may not get from them for free. You have to have a genuine desire to work with them, love their products and actually own a few or use them on a daily basis, and be willing to tell them when they miss the mark with a product in a professional and courteous manner.

Another blogging tip,  you MUST network.  Even just 5 or 6 years ago when I was blogging – “networking” meant that you had to visit your favorite blogs every day and comment on the new posts.  However, with all of the social media avenues available to bloggers now that’s not necessarily the “formula” any longer. Follow their Facebook pages, give their posts a +1 on Google+ and leave a comment.  Also, double-tap to like that silly photo of their dog on Instagram.
Act as though they are already a family friend that share a cup of coffee with.  If you aren’t sure who you should be cultivating a relationship with – Google what you’re interested in!   Another blogging tip, if you like DIY projects, do a search for “DIY bloggers.”  If you want to get more specific, google “Virginia DIY bloggers” to find bloggers in your state.  They might post on social media that they are attending this week’s wine tasting at the country club. That’s your opportunity to attend the same event, introduce yourself, and make a new friend.
Here’s another blogging tip, you do NOT need to follow 3000 different bloggers.  I am currently in the process of putting together The Ultimate Blogger List (which closes for submissions on April 30, 2015).  It will be helpful in finding bloggers in your particular niche or field of interest.  The list includes the blogger’s name, their blog name and URL, the city and state that they live in.  Additionally, what they blog about. Once the list is closed, I’ll be sharing a copy of it with those bloggers that have requested a copy.  It is going to be a fantastic starting point for building your network of fellow bloggers.  I’m super excited about it! If you haven’t already added your blog – go do it now!

3. What social media platform do you prefer for promoting your blog content and why?
Ugh, that’s a tough one. I’m one of those  perfectionist types with a bit of manic ADD thrown in for good measure – and I  think I have to be everywhere simultaneously. I had a falling out with Facebook  several months (a year?) back and decided to just ignore it and use Google+  exclusively.  I had a lot of interaction at first (again,  networking with others you are interested in, reading their posts and sharing).  But, I began to notice that a lot of the posts weren’t personal.  They were basically automated posts from the bloggers that I followed when they published a new post.  I wasn’t getting the same level of interaction that I did on Facebook. So, I went back to Facebook. I like the groups because conversations are threaded and you can really get a lively discussion going on certain topics.  Furthermore, I also have been trying different ways to engage my readers on my fan page as well as my personal page.  You are more than welcome to send me a friend request!  I only turn down those creepy guys floating in the middle of the ocean on a raft looking for a “soulmate” to share their raft with. Keep moving buddy!) and not just automatically publishing a post to my Facebook page but actually writing a few sentences about the post and asking a question.

If I had to pick a social network – I’d say Facebook with Twitter and Pinterest tied for second place. Ironically, 45% of my traffic this month has been from StumbleUpon (which I hardly ever use).  Since the beginning of the year though – my traffic has been primarily from Pinterest, Facebook, and StumbleUpon and pretty evenly distributed as well.

4. Driving traffic and getting readers and followers to share blog content is essential for blogging success.  Commenting on blog posts is also recommended. Can you explain to readers why these steps are important and what your plan of action is to get followers/readers to share your content?
Really Rhonda? You had to put me on the spot like this? I hate trying to get people to comment on my blog. I have literally gone months without one single comment. Do you know how frustrating that is?!?
Then it dawned on me. Why are they going to share (let alone take the time to read) anything that I am writing, if I’m not commenting and sharing what they are writing?  I think I’ve tried every social share and commenting system out there to see what the magic solution was.  If nothing else, the one thing I’ve learned as a blogger came from being a reader and commenter myself.

 Keep your blog design SIMPLE, clean, and easy to read.
  • Don’t have a crazy mix of colors, or fonts that are hard to read.
  • Don’t have flashing doo-dads and snow falling and music playing that will slow your blog’s load
    time and piss me off because I have to wait for all the bells and whistles to catch up.
  • Turn off the $#%!*# captcha that nobody can read and ends up having to try three or four times till
    they finally get it right just to leave you a comment that reads, “Great post.  Thanks for the advice.”
  • Give me a menu! Where can I find your recipes? How do I get in contact with you? How do I find out
    more about you or the XYZ product I saw you became an independent consultant for on Facebook the other day?
  • It all boils down to four little words that apply to most everything, “keep it simple,
    stupid!”

Now, because it is the most annoying,  pain in the ass feature on the face of the planet, I have to vent about this
next item.  If two seconds after I arrive on your blog to read your post a pop-up appears in front of my face and won’t let me finish reading the article until I subscribe to your newsletter or follow you on Facebook – I’m outta there.  And, trust me I won’t be back.

Especially if the article sounded really good because then it just pisses me off even more that I’ve read the first paragraph and can’t get to the rest of  it until I answer your stupid box.

The kiss of death is filling out box one to make it go away and then having another box pop up from the bottom to advertise something, click the “x” to make that go away and three seconds later ANOTHER box pops up? I’ll never be back to your blog. If I really like your style of writing or your humor, I’ll read your stuff in Feedly or Bloglovin but I will never visit the blog itself again.

Finally – your commenting system. MAKE MY LIFE EASIER – PLEASE! I want to leave you a  comment and tell you how much I enjoyed your post. If I have to enter my name,  my email, my website address, leave my comment, fill the captcha out three or  four times, choose my latest post, log in with my Facebook account all before I can hit publish and post my comment – you’ve lost me. Especially if I then see “your comment will be visible after approval.”

All I heard on my WordPress commenting system were crickets chirping.  I re-installed Disqus comments after the last WordPress update and I am absolutely ecstatic that I did. I have been receiving at least 5 to 20 comments daily on posts.  And, I do my best to ensure that I respond to each and every one of them.

5. You have a significant following on all of your social media sites. What tips can you give readers who wish to increase their followers?

The best blogging tip is to Talk To Your Readers and Followers.  Interact with them, laugh with them, cry with them, poor your heart out to your readers – be Human.  It’s what makes YOU unique!

You may also like: Professional Blogging Tips – Part I

 

When Kim is not blogging on a House in a Life of Testosterone or promoting the Brand, she spends time with her 3 children and husband in Richmond, Virginia.

 

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  1. Great post. Thanks for the advice.  Hehe..I got a lot of great information from this interview! Making a few changes to my blog.  Thanks ladies.