How to Boost Your Energy As a Parent

Being a parent is tiring, no matter the age of your children.  Once the sleepless nights of infanthood are over, you need to run around after adventurous toddlers.  Furthermore, there’s the ever-changing emotions of teenagers.  It’s not particularly surprising that most parents are absolutely exhausted.  Rather than let this fatigued state become your new normal, you should do something about it.  There’s not enough caffeine in the world to combat this problem, but there are things that you can do.  Today, we’re sharing parenting tips on how to boost your energy as a parent. 

 

 

 

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1. Head To Bed Earlier

Once you’ve put the kids to bed, it can be very tempting to stay up late watching television or catching up on the chores. However, you need adequate rest to be able to function properly. For this reason, you should head to bed a little earlier so that you can get around eight hours of sleep. Adopt healthy sleep habits, like sticking to a sleep schedule and turning off electronics in the evening.

 

2. Eat A Nutritious Diet

The food that you put into your body can have a significant effect on how you feel. Therefore, if you’ve been feeling sluggish and tired, it might be worth looking at your eating habits.  Your body needs fuel to keep you up and running.  So, ensure that you eat the best that you can. Whole, nutritious foods, like nuts and seeds, leafy vegetables, and lean red meats all provide plenty of energy.  Also, vitamins and minerals that your body requires to function at its very best.

 

3. Steer Clear Of Sugar

When you feel tired, it can be so easy to reach for a sweet and sugar-filled snack. This offers a much-needed energy boost, but, unfortunately, provides one that doesn’t last very long. Your blood sugar levels will spike for a short time, but, when they fall again, you are usually left feeling worse than before. Eating large quantities of sugar can also heighten your risk of developing certain health problems. For this reason, it’s best to stick to healthier, more nutritious snacks.

 

4. Work Out Every Day

You might think that exercise will tire you out, but it can actually boost your energy levels. The reason for his is that it helps to increase your stamina and strength, as well as your heart rate. This increase heart rate pumps blood faster around your body so that fuel is delivered more efficiently to tissues and muscles. Exercise also triggers the release of endorphins, which combat stress and boost mood. Because of this, you should try to work out every single day.

 

 

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5. Find Reasons To Laugh

Like exercise, laughter also releases endorphins into the brain. These feel-good chemicals do a lot of good for your body and mind, including helping you to feel refreshed and awake. Finding reasons to laugh, therefore, can be incredibly beneficial. When you have a little one to look after, you’ll find a lot that they do is comical. You can also watch funny shows and films. When you’re not in a particularly comedic mood, fake laughing works too and can make you laugh for real.

 

6. Combat Your Hearing Problems

The harder it is for you to hear, the more energy your brain will use trying to do so. This can leave you feeling exhausted, even after only a short conversation. For this reason, if you’re struggling to hear, you should speak to a professional. They might suggest wearing a hearing aid, like the Miracle-Ear GENIUS 3.0. Sometimes your hearing problems aren’t quite so serious. All that might be required is for you to clean them out or have them cleaned out a bit more regularly.

 

7. Learn How To Relax

It’s not uncommon for parents to feel stressed, especially when you have a particularly busy schedule. However, that doesn’t mean that you should just ignore it when you feel overwhelmed. This won’t solve the problem and can actually make it worse.  There are many ways you could reduce your stress levels, from yoga to medication and even drawing. Some people also find that journaling about their troubles helps them to combat them too.

 

8. Kick That Smoking Habit

Everyone knows what a terrible habit smoking is. It’s one of the worst things that you can do for your health, increasing your risk of developing a number of incredibly serious health issues, including heart disease and cancer. The tar and toxins from cigarettes can also reduce the efficiency of your lungs, making you feel tired. The only way to fix this is to kick your smoking habit. There is a lot of support out there that can help you through this, so speak to your doctor.

 

9. Drink Plenty Of Water

Our bodies are made up of mostly water, so it should be no surprise to you that we need water to feel our best. Throughout the day, you lose water when you sweat and go to the bathroom. This can leave you dehydrated, which can affect your brain function and energy. To stay hydrated, you must drink more water each day, especially when it’s warm. Carrying a water bottle around with you can remind you to take regular sips so that you don’t get thirsty.

 

   10. Consult With Your Doctor

Tiredness is not something that should be ignored. If you’ve done everything that you can to boost your energy levels, but still feel fatigued, then you should consult with your doctor. This is a symptom of many different illnesses and health problems, like thyroid conditions, anemia, and even depression. These conditions must be dealt with quickly, so you should book a checkup right away if you think that something could be wrong.

Tired shouldn’t be the new normal, even for parents. Hopefully, with the advice above, you can boost your energy levels and feel refreshed.

Sunday’s Best Linkup – #229

Welcome to Week 229 of Sunday’s Best Linkup  – #229. This is the first week of our Show Us Your Garden theme.  So we’re looking for all things relating to vegetable, flower and container gardens.  Also, tablescapes with flowers, party ideas, decorating ideas,  wreaths, activities for kids, crafts, outdoor spaces, flower arrangements, and more. So, blow the dust off those old posts and share them. Also, parenting, SEO, cocktails, DIY, makeovers and more are welcome too.  Additionally, we’ve added a new category, Mom Needs a Cocktail.  So, we will be featuring cocktails of the week. If your have cocktail or Mocktail recipes you would like to share, we welcome them!    



Linky Parties




Additionally, we also welcome other recipes, crafts, DIY, home makeover, gardening tips, SEO & blogging information, sewing projects, patio and deck makeovers, front porch makeover ideas, organization tips, ideas for backyard hot dog roasts, and more.  Anything goes on Sunday’s Best Linkup – #229, as long as it’s family friendly.  And, you may linkup as many posts as you would like. Furthermore, be sure to tell your friends, they will want to join the Sunday’s Best Linkup too.

So, each week your hosts will select their favorite post. The posts will be featured the following week. Also, an image from your post will be used on our linkup the following week along with a link back to your blog. As a result, be sure to check back to see if you’re a Sunday’s Best Featured Blogger. All Featured Bloggers will have their posts pinned to Rhonda’s Sunday’s Best Pinterest Board and Kim M. pins the weekly featured bloggers to her Sunday’s Best Pinterest Board too!

Also, the post with the most clicks will be the Reader’s Choice post(s). We will be adding the winner to our Sunday’s Best Linkup featured bloggers.

All posts linking to Sunday’s Best Linkup – #229 will be promoted on Twitter. The Post With the Most Clicks will be selected. Monthly Themes will feature a post each week as well.

Contact rhonda@mother2motherblog.com or email one of our other hosts if you are interested in co-hosting.

 

Your Sunday’s Best Linkup Hosts Are:

Rhonda at Mother 2 Mother Kim at Life in a House Brittany at A Mama Tale

 

Here are the rules, please connect with us on social media before you leave or subscribe to/follow our blogs:

Mother 2 Mother: Please like Rhonda’s Facebook Page, follow her on Twitter;, Google+, Pinterest, BlogLovin, or subscribe/join her blog on the right sidebar before you leave.

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Also, your readers may want to join the Sunday’s Best Linkup too! For those who have a Link Party list/directory, please add us. We appreciate your help in promoting the linkup with Re-tweets and shares. Now, let’s party!
 
 
 
Rhonda selected DIY Vintage Furniture Makeover  from Real Coake  
 
 
 
 
DIY Furniture Makeovers
 
 



Kim selected DIY Sea Glass Earrings  from Yarn Scissors Silk  

 
 
 
DIY Earrings
 
 
 
 
 
Brittany selected Gluten Free Banana Sunflower Muffins from Strength and Sunshine  
 
 

Gluten Free Muffins

 

 

The Post with the Most Clicks

Pina Colada Cupcakes from Delightful E Made  

 
 
 
dessert recipes
 
 
 

Favorite Theme Post(s) – We Remember You!

 

American Flag Graham Crackers from Janine Huldie  

 
 
 
 
patriotic desserts
 
 
 
and
 
 
 
Patriotic Newspaper Candle Holders from Purple Hues and Me
 
 
 
patriotic decor
 
 
 
and
 
 
 
Patriotic Mason Jar Cozies  from Scrap Shoppe Blog
 
 
 
patriotic decor
 
 
 
 
 
and
 
 
 
Patriotic Brownies Sandwiches   from Mama of Many Blessings 

 
patriotic desserts
 
 
 
 
 
and




Patriotic Strawberry Jello Poke Cake from Marilyn’s Treats

 
patriotic desserts
 
 
 
 

Mom Needs a Cocktail 

 

Classic Frozen Margarita from Wonder Mom Wannabe 

cocktail recipes
 
 
 
 
and
 
 
 
 
Rum Slush  from The Kitchen is My Playground



cocktail recipes
 
 
Last, congratulations to our featured bloggers! All of the posts were great, and we deeply appreciate each of you participating on Sunday’s Best Linkup. We have so many great posts that it gets difficult to choose a featured blogger. Finally, your hosts would like to invite all of you back to link up your post(s) again. We could select your post next week!
 
Finally, while you’re here take a minute to visit these great blogs. It’s a great way to meet and connect with new bloggers. Be sure to PIN or share any posts that you like, we all appreciate a little love and be sure to connect with others on social media.

 

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How To Deal With A Serious Injury As a Parent

Suffering a serious injury can be one of the toughest things an individual deals with during their lifetime.  This becomes exponentially more difficult when you have children.  Unfortunately, serious injuries often impact all of those close to you.   Furthermore, seeing a parent injured can be quite devastating to a child.  They think their mother or father is a superhero.  The most important thing for you to do is to start recovering and realize that the entire family is with you.  Today, we’re sharing parenting tips on how to deal with a serious injury when you have children.

 

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Focus On Rehabilitation

The best thing that you can do for yourself and your children is to recover as quickly as possible.  So, do not miss a rehabilitation session.  You need to be dedicated to physical therapy daily to recover fully.  Understanding the difference between pain and discomfort is important during your recovery period.  Remember, pushing yourself too hard can lead to aggravating the injury again.  Just as important, not pushing yourself enough will delay recovery time.  As a result, find the balance and continually give input to your physical therapist.  Getting upset that recovery is not going as planned can be an easy mindset for you to fall into.  So, look at every day as a challenge with some days being tougher than others.

 

Do Not Take Your Frustrations Out On The Family

One of the most frustrating things is not being able to do something simple due to your injury.  This can include not being able to do dishes because of a broken leg or not being able to shower without help.  This is not the fault of your family, and that is something you need to remember.  Unfortunately, it can be easy to take out a bad day on them.  If you are at home due to the injury spend that extra time with the kids.  An injury can have positive impacts depending on how you look.  Having extra time with the family can be positive.  So, learning how to deal with a serious injury as a parent is imperative.

 

Discuss How The Injury Is Impacting Your Family

Your children could be devastated that you are hurt.  So, it is important to ask them about their feelings on the current circumstances.  Have your children see a therapist if they are unwilling to open up.  Your injury could be the source of their problem.  Take the time daily to let them know that you will be back to your old self after recovery time.  If you have suffered a permanent injury, sit down with them so you can talk about how life is going to change.  Do not leave them to figure out these things alone. It can be a trying time for them as well as others in your family.

 

 

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Have Your Significant Other Help Pick Up The Slack

Your significant other is going to have to pick up the slack in order to keep thing running smoothly.  You will be able to do some things, so trading off responsibilities will help everything run smoothly.   Be sure to tell your significant other how much you appreciate what they are doing.  Furthermore, sit down weekly to talk about how you can start doing more to help the family get through the post-accident recovery process.

 

Seek Financial Compensation

As a parent you cannot allow your family to endure financial stress coupled with the emotional stress that everyone is already feeling. Finding the nearest attorney can be done with a simple internet search.  The Barnes Firm, a personal injury lawyer in San Diego, says, “Suffering from a personal injury is devastating, regardless of the circumstances. The unfortunate reality is that many of these injuries often go far beyond the physical effects and may affect ability to work and one’s future wages that deserve to be compensated.”   Filing a lawsuit and winning will not only provide financial compensation, but it’ll help you feel empowered and show your children you fought for what was right.

The above tips can help you deal with a serious injury when you have children.  But, a positive attitude throughout this process can make all of the difference. A negative attitude can lead you into depression and the trap of feeling sorry for yourself. An injury can be life changing, but at least you have your life as well as family. Remembering things could have been much worse is a way to stay grateful for what you have currently.  Always stay positive during the difficult times!

 

You may also like:  Choosing the Right Medical Mattress.  

 

Family Vacations in New York City

Today, we’re sharing travel tips on vacations in New York City.   A trip to New York City might bring up thoughts of a romantic weekend or a massive Christmas shopping trips.  It might not be the first place that you think of when it comes to a family holiday. You might imagine busy streets, long queues, expensive restaurants and fancy hotels.  Certainly not the kind of place you’d go to with young children. But, these romantic breaks and shopping trips aren’t all that New York has to offer.

 

vacation in New York City

 

A vacation in New York City could be perfect. The city is packed with museums, playgrounds, parks, large toy shops and other brilliant family-friendly attractions. Your kids will love it, you’ll all get a chance to bond, and you might even be able to fit in some more grown-up excursions while you are there.

 

Family Vacations in New York City

 

Find the Right Hotel

Choosing the right hotel is essential if you want a successful, safe, fun and stress-free family trip. The hotel that you choose should have large rooms just in case you need to add extra beds or cribs.  Furthermore, it should cater to families with facilities and restaurants serving a range of food.  You might also want to find somewhere close to the attractions that you would like to see during your visit.  You don’t want to spend time doing too much walking or on public transport with tired and grumpy kids.

 

Prepare for Your Journey

If you can, a road trip might be ideal.  For example, it’s more comfortable for the kids, you can stop whenever you along the way, and you’ll have access to your own vehicle for the duration of your trip.

Whether you are flying, driving or taking the train, make sure you pack everything that you need.  This includes snacks, drinks, and plenty to keep your kids entertained for the journey.

 

 

vacation in New York City

 

 

Plan Some Events

There is absolutely loads to do in New York.  Some of it is suitable for children and young families, and some isn’t. If you want to be able to make the most of your trip and see as much as possible, it’s a good idea to plan your days.  Start looking online for the best child-friendly New York attractions, NYC show tickets that your kids might enjoy, and the best family-friendly eateries before you travel.

 

Visit at the Right Time

If you are traveling with children, it’s always a good idea to avoid visiting at the busiest times when there is likely to be long queues and crowded streets. You might also want to avoid high summer when the weather can be very hot, and prices inflated. Visiting between January and March, or September and November can be wise.

 

 

vacation in New York City

 

 

Study a Map

New York is quite easy to navigate. It is built in logical blocks, making it easy to walk around and find your way. But, it’s also absolutely massive. So, if you don’t want to spend time lost and confused, study maps before you leave to help you to get your bearings.

A vacation in New York City can be a memorable experience for you and your family.  Do your homework and check what places that you and your family would enjoy.

 

How to Get Rest When You Have Children

Getting a rest from your children is a good thing for both you and baby.  For example, the children get some time away from you where they can have fun and socialize.  But, you get some well-needed sleep or alone time too. It’s mentally healthy and quite frankly needed.  This is incredibly important especially if you’re a new parent.  There is no doubt your life has gone through some major changes.  However, there are plenty of ways you can still get some rest and remain in control.  Today we’re sharing  empowerment tips on how to get rest when you have children.  Many options are right in front of you, but you need structure to ensure your choices are reliable.

 

 

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If you do live close to your in-laws or parents, they can be a good resource for help when you need a rest.  Perhaps if you have siblings that are close by they too can be substitutes.  They will surely understand that you need help getting some sleep or just time to relax and take a bath.  Asking them to come over and babysit can take a load off your mind.  Alternatively,  you can drop the kids off at their place and pick them up when you’re ready. Use the weekends to empty the house and get some peace and quiet for a few hours.  If you have relatives who want to take them for a few days or the week-end take them up on it.  Even this small amount of time can help a lot.

 

 

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Invest in hobbies

Furthermore, child should be encouraged to find hobbies they like.  Getting them moving and keep them active is imperative. But, that means parents must invest in their children.  This includes buying equipment, signing them up for different leisure or children’s groups.   For example, if your child wants to learn to play a sport, you should help them find a local team or club they can join.   Sports like archery needs to be done in a  controlled environment.  As a result, this means you can drop them off for a couple hours and get some rest. Other hobbies like joining the scouts can be great for their learning potential, but also for you.

 

Start them early

The more you can help your children learn new things and have it as part of their daily life, the more you can begin to rest.  There are plenty of child care options for parents as well, and you can take full advantage of them. The kids can be away and in a preschool learning environment from the ages of around 3 to 5.  Not only will they be learning with other children, but the lunches and snacks will be provided by the facility.   Early childhood development provides a curriculum that will also allow your child to learn a variety of educational activities.

Parents and children need some space and time from each other.  Most importantly, it’s good to reset your mind and body as well as allowing the kids to go off to do things they find enjoyable and also learn at the same time.

 

Sunday’s Best Linkup – #228

Welcome to Week 228 of Sunday’s Best Linkup. This is the last week of our We Remember You! theme in honor of Memorial Day.   So we’re looking for all things relating to Memorial Day and red, white and blue. This can include tablescapes, party ideas, decorating ideas, activities for kids, recipes, crafts, outdoor spaces, flower arrangements, and more. So, blow the dust off those old posts and share them. 

Next week we will start our Show Us Your Garden theme!  Anything pertaining to gardening is good.  This includes vegetable gardens, flower gardens, wreaths, crafts, and more.  Additionally, we’ve added a new category, Cocktails for Mom.  So, we will be featuring cocktails of the week.  If your have cocktail or Mocktail recipes you would like to share, we welcome them!  





 

 

 

 

Additionally, we also welcome other recipes, crafts, DIY, home makeover, gardening tips, SEO & blogging information, sewing projects, patio and deck makeovers, front porch makeover ideas, organization tips, ideas for backyard hot dog roasts, and more.  Anything goes, as long as it’s family friendly and you may linkup as many posts as you would like. Furthermore, be sure to tell your friends, they will want to join the Sunday’s Best Linkup too.

So, each week your hosts will select their favorite post. The posts will be featured the following week. Also, an image from your post will be used on our linkup the following week along with a link back to your blog. As a result, be sure to check back to see if you’re a Sunday’s Best Featured Blogger. All Featured Bloggers will have their posts pinned to Rhonda’s Sunday’s Best Pinterest Board and Kim M. pins the weekly featured bloggers to her Sunday’s Best Pinterest Board too!

Also, the post with the most clicks will be the Reader’s Choice post(s).  We will be adding the winner to our Sunday’s Best Linkup featured bloggers.

All posts linking to Sunday’s Best will be promoted on Twitter. The Post With the Most Clicks will be selected. Monthly Themes will feature a post each week as well.

Contact rhonda@mother2motherblog.com or email one of our other hosts if you are interested in co-hosting.

 

Your Sunday’s Best Linkup Hosts Are:

Rhonda at Mother 2 Mother Kim at Life in a House Brittany at A Mama Tale

 

Here are the rules, please connect with us on social media before you leave or subscribe to/follow our blogs:

Mother 2 Mother: Please like Rhonda’s Facebook Page, follow her on Twitter;, Google+, Pinterest, BlogLovin, or subscribe/join her blog on the right sidebar before you leave.

Kim from Life In A House: Please like Kim’s Facebook Page, follow her on Twitter;, Google+;, Pinterest;, Bloglovin;, or Instagram; before you leave.

Brittany from A Mama’s Tale: Please like Brittany’s Facebook Page, follow her on Twitter, or Pinterest before you leave. Snag a Button!

Most importantly, please help us grow by placing our button on your sidebar. Please let your readers and followers know by placing the Featured Blogger banner on your site.

 
 
 
Also, your readers may want to join the Sunday’s Best Linkup too! For those who have a Link Party list/directory, please add us. We appreciate your help in promoting the linkup with Re-tweets and shares. Now, let’s party!
 
 
 
Rhonda selected DIY Ring Bearer Pallet Signs  from Tee Diddly Dee  
 
 
 
wedding ideas
 
 
 

Kim selected Outdoor Summer Planter Centerpiece  from Clean and Scentsible  

 
 
 
center piece ideas
 
 
 
 
 
Brittany selected DIY Father’s Day Card from Home School Preschool 
 
 

 

 

kid's father's day crafts

 

The Post with the Most Clicks

 

Sunflower Cupcakes  from Janine Huldie  

 
Cupcake Ideas
 
 
 
 
 

Favorite Theme Post(s) – We Remember You!

 

 

Red White and Blue Dessert Pound Cake  from Karin Kottage  

 
 
 
patriotic desserts
 
 
 
 
and
 
 
 
Patriotic Candle Holders from Two Chicks and a Mom 
 
 
 
 
Patriotic Decor
 
 
 
 
 
and
 
 
 
Outdoor Patriotic Tassel Garland from Scrap Shoppe Blog  
 
 
 
 
patriotic decor
 
 
 
 
and 
 
 
 
4th of July Tricycle Centerpiece  from Karins Kottage
 
 
 
Patriotic Decor
 
 
 

Cocktails for Mom

 

cocktail recipes

 
 
 
and
 
 
 
cocktail recipes
 
 
 
 
Last, congratulations to our featured bloggers! All of the posts were great, and we deeply appreciate each of you participating on Sunday’s Best Linkup. We have so many great posts that it gets difficult to choose a featured blogger. Finally, your hosts would like to invite all of you back to link up your post(s) again. We could select your post next week!
 
Finally, while you’re here take a minute to visit these great blogs.  It’s a great way to meet and connect with new bloggers. Be sure to PIN or share any posts that you like, we all appreciate a little love and be sure to connect with others on social media.

 

You are invited to the Inlinkz link party!

Click here to enter

How to Enjoy Road Trips with a Baby

Today, I’m sharing travel tips on how to enjoy road trips with a baby.  While we are sure you will have a wonderful time, there will be stresses.   Especially, when your baby kicks up a fuss while you’re trying to navigate the highways and byways.  However, you trip doesn’t have to be entirely stressful or ruined.

 

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Here’s a few tips on surviving road tips with a baby:

 

#1: Keep your baby supplies nearby

Don’t cram all of your luggage into the trunk of your car. When it comes to the items your baby needs, you are going to need them at hand.  Pack them into a large diaper bag that can accommodate most of your baby necessities.  For example, diapers, ready-made bottles of breast or formula milk, blankets, wipes, and toys. With everything you need in close proximity, you will quickly have what you need should your baby get bored, hungry, or both!

 

#2: Enlist a back seat passenger

Other than your baby, you might have a back seat passenger ready if you’re bringing other family members or friends along.  But, if it’s just you and your partner, you might want to tag team driving duties.  For example, one of you can sit in the back with your baby.  As a result, the back-seat passenger can take on the duties when crying or tantrums arise.  Additionally, this will ensure the driver isn’t overly distracted.  Duties can included feeding the baby to reading baby books or playing peek-a-boo.  Furthermore, the back seat passenger will be invaluable when it comes to keeping the baby quiet and entertained.

 

#3: Plan for breaks

Unless you want a smelly car, you will need to plan for breaks to give you the opportunity to change your baby’s diaper. You might want to change their clothes too if they have become sweaty or stained with food.  And, you all may need a little respite from the confines of your car.  Before you set off on your journey, download a rest stop locator app on your smartphone. This will be useful when planning where to take stops.

 

#4: Avoid the scenic route

We know road trips are often about taking those roads less-traveled.  But, when you have a baby to look after, you don’t want to run the risk of getting lost on your journey.  As we suggested, you will need a route that includes places to take a break, gas stations and food courts.  So, you might find traveling the highway is more practical than taking detours into the countryside.  Plan your route in advance; if you can find a scenic route with plenty of rest stops, then fine.  But if not, stick to the main roads for convivence sake.

 

Finally, traveling can be a fun when you learn how to enjoy road trips with a baby.  By following our tips, you should be able to minimize stress for both you and your baby.  Let us know what you think, and if you have any other useful tips for any road trippers this summer.  Please leave a comment below.

You may also like:  Family Travel Tips With Kids

 

12 Motivation Ideas for Women

Having confidence or self-esteem issues? You’re not alone. Today, I’m sharing tips on motivation ideas for women.   First, stop wondering how to empower yourself and start implementing our these empowerment and motivational tips.  Yes, start thinking about that.  Unfortunately, we can lose ourselves when we become wives and mothers.  We wake up wondering what happened to us?  Where and when did we lose who we were as a woman and human beings.

Shamelessly, I lost myself years ago and became a shell of a woman.  Being functionable was about all I could manage to do each day.  I was simply going through a routine day after day.  Finding myself again became a priority, and I vowed never to loose my way again.  I am happy to say that I reached my goal and have never looked back.  I focused on this Bible Verse, “I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength.” Philippians 4:13 (NIV).

 

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Additionally, I changed my habits and thought process.  Your attitude and your thinking is everything.  I realized that I was just as important as those that I loved and took care of.  And, I was just as deserving of love, time and attention as they were.  Furthermore, I realized that we all have a purpose.  But, unless we take the time to meditate and take care of ourselves we could miss our calling.  How to empower yourself  should become a priority in taking back your life.

Here are a few motivation ideas for women:

 

  • Learn to say no – Some where I read that No is a complete sentence.  Actually, I liked the concept and adopted it.  Saying no doesn’t have to be a long drawn out explanation.  Just say no.  You will find it empowering.
  • Start speaking up – Next, speak up.  If you don’t nobody will hear you.  Learn to voice your opinions, wants and needs.
  • Enhance Your Education – Education is power.  Take a few classes, which could lead to the degree that you always wanted.
  • Have a fixed income – Furthermore, get a part time  job or learn to make money from home.  Contributing to the household or being able to treat yourself and your kids is an exhilarating experience.
  • Remove yourself from domestic violence –  Furthermore, learn your value.  If you are being abused in anyway, you must remove yourself from the situation.  Come up with a plan to get out with your children safely.  Call 1-800-799-7233 for assistance.
  • Stop any harassment or shaming – Don’t allow anyone to make you feel bad about yourself or bully you.  Speak up, and take any necessary action to eliminate the behavior.
  • Set standards for yourself – Most importantly, when people see that you have standards and don’t lower them, they raise to your level or leave.  If they choose to leave, let them.
  • Adopt a positive attitude – Also, people gravitate to those who have a positive outlook on life.
  • Assess your friendships and Associates – So, take a look at your friends and relationships.  Are you associating with those who you strive to be like or have the same goals and ambitions as you?  If not, you may want to change your circle.
  • Start taking care of yourself – Eating right and exercising is imperative to feeling good about yourself and improving your health.
  • Learn the meaning of respect – Most importantly, learn to respect yourself.  When you do, others will respect you too.
  • Renew Your Faith –  Last, learn to believe in something or someone other than yourself.  Having faith to get you through the turbulent times in your life and giving thanks when you’re blessed is important.

 

Finally,  learning how to motivate and empower yourself is a choice.  You can remain in your current situation unhappy, feeling weak and abused or you can take your power back.  Each of us are where we are because of choices that we make.  Let that sink in for a few minutes.  Only you can make the changes needed to reach your goals, raise your self-esteem and become physically and emotionally.  Nowhere is it written that we have to lose ourselves because he have a job, husband, kids, not where we want to be financially, gained weigh.  Whatever you have going on you can change it.

You must learn to play the hand that you are dealt or you will get played by life.  Get in the game, and start taking small steps to making changes in your life.  Motivation ideas for women is a good start.

Also, you may also like:  Repairing Strained Mother Daughter Relationships or Keeping Your Emotional Health.  

 


 

Preventing Blossom End Rot In Your Garden

Today, I’m sharing tips on preventing blossom end rot.   Backyard vegetable gardening can be fun and beneficial to your health.  And, there’s nothing better than a backyard garden home grown tomato.  Gardeners drool just thinking about the first vine ripen tomato for the BLT, salad or other recipe.

Unfortunately, growing a successful backyard vegetable gardens requires love, care and skill.  When we see those black spots on the bottom of our tomatoes, squash, and peppers, it can be devastating.

 

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Preventing Blossom End Rot:

 

In order to prevent blossom end rot, a gardener needs to understand the problem.  Blossom end rot is a result of a calcium deficiency.  Fortunately, gardeners can take care of the problem before it occurs.   Here are few tips that will help you avoid a ruined backyard garden crop:

Prepare your soil before you plant  –  Test your soil before you plant your garden.  Doing a soil test will let you know about any deficiencies.  You can purchase a kit or take samples to you local county Extension Office.

Add calcium to your plant – I add eggshells to the bottom of the transplant holes when I plant my tomatoes and peppers.  I save eggshells throughout the yard, wash and dry them thoroughly, and crush them to use in the garden.  I also use the eggshells to provide calcium for my backyard birds during the spring when they’re laying eggs too.

You can also add Epsom Salt to the tomato and pepper hole before adding your plants too.  Once you add the Epsom Salt, cover it with a layer of salt before adding your plants.  You don’t want to burn the roots of your plants.

Make sure you don’t over or under water plantsUsing a mulch will help maintain an even water level.  I use straw to mulch my plants.  Dried grass or leaves can also be used.

Stake plants early – When I plant my tomatoes and peppers, I place the cage around them or stake them immediately.  This avoids damaging the roots of the plants later.

Avoid damaging your plant’s roots – Avoid using a hoe around your plants once they are planted.  Simply removing weeds by hand will suffice.

Work eggshells into the soil around the plants – Work eggshells into the soil around your plant after you transplant it to add a top dressing.

 


 

Remember, prevention is the best medicine for a backyard garden.  However, checking for early signs on your fruit is key too.  If you spot the disease early follow these steps:

Remove the affected vegetables from the plant – Clip the diseased fruit from the plant with a pair of sharp scissors or clippers.

Make a calcium spray  – Spray your plants with an organic calcium spray.  Mix 2 tablespoons of Epsom Salt to a gallon of water.  Use a spray bottle to spray your plants.

 

I hope you grow a bumper crop of tomatoes this season.  You may also like:  Favorite Heirloom Tomatoes and Characteristics 

 

How to Remove Contact Paper From Thrift Finds

Today, I’m sharing thrifty tips on how to remove contact paper.  I purchased an old dry sink to turn into a bar.  Unfortunately, the drawers were lined with contact paper.  The contact paper was beautiful, but leaving it wasn’t an option for my project. Neither was painting over it.  I wanted to keep the integrity of the drawers.  If you have struggled with how to remove contact paper from drawers, cabinets, trays or some other object I understand.  Keep reading, I have the solution for removing contact paper.

 

 

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Before indoor plumbing was available, dry sinks were used.  They actually mirror a cabinet with a recessed top.  People placed a basin and pitcher of water on them.  They placed dry sinks in kitchens, bedrooms, and on porches.

 

 

Removing Contact Paper

 

 

As I stated previously, I wanted to remove the contact paper from the drink sink drawers.  Unfortunately, I tried to lift the paper from the drawer unsuccessfully.  After spending 5 or 10 minutes trying to remove the paper I gave up.  At times, my patience is not one of my virtue.  Furthermore, I try to use as few chemicals as possible in and around my home.  Using a utility knife proved difficult without damaging the interior of the drawers.  As I was contemplating my next move I thought of a post that I had read months and months ago on removing contact paper.

The weapon for removing contact paper is a blow dryer.  Blow dryers are a dime a dozen in my home.  I raised a daughter.  During the teenage years, blower dryers were in every bathroom and closet.  Oh the memories.  So, I knew I had one somewhere in my house.

 

 

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I plugged in the blow dryer and went to work. Simply waving the dryer back and forth across the paper I was able to lift the contact paper slowly.  As a matter of fact, the contact paper lifted with ease.  As a result, the process went smoothly and quickly.  However, if you are looking to preserve the paper, using a blow dryer is not the answer.

 

 

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Stay tuned for the end result of my dry sink makeover.  You may also like:   Thrift Store Teak Bowls