Archives for March 2011

Reuben Casserole

Do you like Reuben sandwiches?  If you do, you will love this easy and delicious casserole.  It has the makings of a Reuben sandwich, corned beef, sauerkraut, swiss cheese, but you bake it.  

Ingredients

  • Package Bob Evans Original Mashed Potatoes (24 oz)
  • 2 large eggs
  • 1/4 cup milk
  • 1/3 pound thickly sliced corned beef cut into 1/2 inch pieces (available at grocery deli)
  • 1 can sauerkraut, drained (4 oz)
  • 1 tablespoon spicy brown mustard
  • 1 cup shredded Swiss cheese, divided

Directions

Preheat oven to 400F. In large bowl, stir together potatoes, eggs and milk until well combined. Stir in corned beef, sauerkraut and mustard. Set aside 2 tablespoons of cheese. Stir in remaining cheese into potato mixture. Pour into a greased 8 x 8 inch oval baking pan. Top with 2 tablespoons cheese. Bake 15-20 minutes or until top is golden.  Serve with a tossed salad.  Yummy!  Recipe compliments of Bob Evans. 
 
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Would You Wear A Lettuce Dress?

Yep, it’s made from lettuce!  I had to do a double take when I saw this advertisement for PETA.  Quite creative.  First Lady Gaga and her dress made from raw meat and now a lettuce dress from PETA.  What’s next bread, lol?   This advertisement is for PETA’s vegetarian and vegan starter kits.  PETA is encouraging people to go vegan.  Whoever created the dress should head over to Project Runway and sign up for the next season.  It’s adorable

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Teen Suicide Is Real in America

Sadly, this is probably one of the saddest post that I’ve ever written.  My neighbor’s 13 year old daughter committed suicide.  They found her around 3:00 am.  One of my neighbors came to visit so she could let me know of the tragedy.  We discussed how we come together as a community to help this family.  That’s the type of neighborhood that I live in.  We look out for each other regularly, and help each other out in time of need.  Today, I’m sharing parenting tips on teen suicide in our society.  

 

Teen Depression

 

 

Like many, my neighbors stated that they hadn’t seen the suicide coming.   Their child was being bullied, but they didn’t see it as a big deal.  In their mind, she wasn’t being bullied anymore than anyone else.  My immediate thought was, here’s another child being bullied and nobody does anything about it.  Sadly, this child as ended her life.  She was a beautiful little girl with so much to live for.  However, in her mind she had nothing to live for.  Her pain was far greater than future.

After my neighbor left, I wondered how her parents could possibly find the strength to deal with this tragedy.  Furthermore, I wondered how they could not take bullying seriously.  How could they just chalk it up as her not being bullied anymore than anyone else.  Bullying is a serious problem.  I thought about the guilt that they must be feeling right now.  So many things have crossed my mind.  I wondered what I would say to them when I see them.  I wondered how they could continue to live in a home that was so lovingly built 3 years ago to one that would now hold a memory that would be unbearable.  How does life go on after you loose a child in any manner, especially to suicide?

 


 

 

Teen suicide is not unheard of in today’s world.  Why do kids think it’s  acceptable to torture another person?  Why are we so accepting of bullying, and so willing to chalk it up as kids being kids?   Most importantly, what’s happening to our parenting skills? I guarantee children aren’t just acting out and bullying other kids in school.  They’re misbehaving at home too.  Behavior problems start at home.  To single out another person and torture them is beyond my comprehension.

My daughter was bullied in school, and I’m here to tell you that it was not acceptable to me.  I took action.  I let the school and the parents of the girls involved know that there would be hell to be paid if it continued with my child.  At that point there was two things that you didn’t mess with 1) My daughter and 2) My money.  I labored for 8 hours to bring my daughter into the world.  She was an investment.  I invested all the love, time and money that I had into my daughter.  She became my life and my most prized possession.  I’ve just added to my portfolio now there’s my grandson and granddaughter.  Anyway, I told other parents that if they weren’t investing in their child, that wasn’t my problem.  And, they weren’t going to make it my daughter’s either.

 

teen depression

 

 

As my readers know, I have been writing about bullying for some time.  Unfortunately, bullying has an effect on families for the rest of their life.  You just don’t get over it as some people think.  It affects your self-esteem and self-worth.  Children don’t understand that the problem really lies with the kids who are doing the bullying.  As children it is easy to believe what the other person is saying about them.  Parents must counteract bullies.  Children today have no respect for authority, their peers or themselves.  They think it’s okay to just say or do whatever they please.  I would venture to say they have no respect for their parents either.

Wake up America, this is a serious problem in this country.  It is not kids being kids.  The Duchess of Cambridge, Kate Middleton, works with a charity as a result of being bullied herself.  Her parents pulled her out of the school where the trauma was occurring.  I wonder what her bullies think of her now.

Finally, I pray that this family finds peace and the strength that they need to move through this difficult time.  No parent should have to lay their child to rest.  Parents, teen suicide is real in America.  And, it could become a reality in your life at any time.  Teen suicide changes everyone’s life.  All will remind in my prayers.

Did You Know – It’s National Potato Chip Day!

It’s National Potato Chip Day!  Yep, March 14 is the day that American indulges in their favorite bag of chips and feels no guilt.  I love chips, so I love this day.  I confess, chips are my weakness.  I haven’t met a chip yet that I didn’t like.  My favorite store brought dip is Heluva Good French Onion,  but I have a yummy homemade dip that is much better.   I’ll take it either way.  My Xavier is a chip off the old block, he loves to eat chips and dip with Mama.  Here’s Xavier helping me make dip for our chips awhile back. It’s amazing how much he has grown since our last dip making session.  No more Nip Nip or Pull Ups.  

I love Martins and Grandma Utz chips.  If they are not available good ole Lays or Utz will do.  If they’re thin, crunchy, and flavorable you won’t get a complaint from me.  Did you know that potato chips were first created as a joke?  The history behind these delectable artery clogging goodness is that they were invented in 1853 by Native American George Crum.  Mr. Crum was a chef at a resort in Saratoga Springs, New York.  A dinner guest ordered french fries, but complained that the fries were too thick and sent the order back.  Well we all know that chefs don’t like their dishes returned.  Mr. Crum decided to get even by producing fries that were too thin and crispy to stick to the dinner guest’s fork.  It backfired, the guest loved the potato slices.  The rest is history, the slices became a hit and known today as potato chips.

I don’t know exactly when I fell in love with these potato slices.  According to the width of my belly, I’ve been loving them for many years.  I’ve given up many things over the course of the years, but I refuse to give up my chips.  I have learned to savour them rather than devour the entire bag at one setting.  Leave us a comment and let us know what you’re favorite snack is.  We would love to hear from you.    

Fabulous Baby Finds – Carter’s Tunics & Capris

Spring is here!  Yes, it’s time for me to get over my winter blues and start searching for what’s hot this spring and summer for our toddlers.  As my readers know, I’m a bargain shopper.  I want quality at a good price and one place that I find it is at Boscovs Department Store.   This establishment has been in business since 1921.  You can find a diverse selection of goods for purchase.  I shop at Boscovs for Xavier.  I’ve been purchasing bargains for him for the past 3 years.  The price is reasonable, the cloths are of quality and they wash up well.  

I’ve found these adorable capris and tunic by Carter’s while I was browsing and thought I would share my finds with you.   It’s so cute and bright.  The capri’s can be purchased in sizes 2T – 4T.  They’re regularly $14.00, but they’re on sale for $5.60.  No, $5.60 is not a typo.  It’s the real deal.  They come in turquoise, lime, gray, and pink.   The tunic is on sale for $5.60 too.  If I was a gambler I would play that number. 

This tee can be found at Boscovs too.  Isn’t it refreshing!  Guess how much is it?  You got it $5.60, lol.  You can be assured the items are quality.  I wouldn’t put anything less on my Xavier.  They’re made by Carter’s, a name that speaks for itself.   Hurry over and check everything out.  You won’t be disappointed.  I’ve purchased London Fog jackets for Xavier that are regularly $50.00 – $60.00 retail for $19.00.  He out grew the jacket before it wore out.   Carter’s offers a great selection of PJs for toddlers on this site too.   If you’re lucky they may have free shipping on orders over $59.00.  They offer this deal often too.  Stay tuned for more Fabulous Baby Finds from Mother 2 Mother.

My Money Is On Sugar Ray or Kirstie Alley

I can’t wait for the new season of Dancing With The Stars to start March 21.  I said I was going to boycott the show after Bristol Palin beat out Brandy last season, but all is forgiven.  When the lineup came out last week, I knew that I couldn’t resist.  The new cast includes Kirstie Alley from Cheers, Kendra Wilkinson from the reality show Kendra, talkshow host Wendy Williams and the Karate Kid Ralph Maccio.  Sugar Ray Leonard, rapper Romeo, and wrestler Chris Jericho will also compete.  I love me some Sugar Ray Leonard.  I used to have dreams about that man when he was boxing.

I also like Kirstie Alley.  I loved her when she was on Cheers and the in movie Madhouse.  That movie cracks me up.  I can also relate to her weight lose struggles although at times I’ve seen pictures of her when she was at her heaviest and I almost didn’t recognize her.  I hope and pray that I never reach that state.  Through it all, she remains one of my favorite actresses.   

I hope this season America votes for the best dancers rather than voting based on their political views.   The show is very entertaining, but when it becomes just downright unjust, it  leaves a bad taste in my mouth.  Yep, I’m talking about Bristol Palin.  On the dance floor, Brandy made a meal out of Bristol Palin and there’s no way she should have landed in the final three.  In the end America proved that they are just people.  They put her in her place, last.   

Are you a DWTS fan?  Leave us a commment and let us know who you will be rooting for. 

Tom Hanks Take on Toddlers and Tiaras

As my readers know, I’m not a fan of children being in beauty pageants. I’ve watched several episodes of Toddlers and Tiaras and quite frankly found it appalling.  I have a problem with parents spray painting tans on children,  making them up to look like painted dolls, and than claiming they’re doing it all for the child..  Do I have stupid tattooed on my forehead?  If you can find the tattoo, I’ll accept that it’s all being done for their daughter.  

Anyway, I came across this video with Tom Hanks and his take on parents and the Toddlers and Tiaras show while watching Jimmy Kimmel.  Tom Hanks is one of my favorite actors, so watching his take on pageants just made my day.  He is brilliant in the video.  Also, the little girl shown in the video is an actress, she is not Tom Hank’s daughter.  Hope you enjoy the video. 

Is 4 Too Old For A Pacifier?

Is 4 too old for a toddler to suck on a pacifier?  Check out little Suri Cruise.  She goes from Little Diva with high heel shoes and a Starbuck drink one day to a toddler needing to suckle the next.  I struggled with my grandson and whether he was too old to continue with his Nip Nip at age 2.  I can’t imagine him walking around at age 5 with a pacifier in his mouth.  Anyway, we decided that we should wean him from the Nip Nip at 2.5 years.  I’m happy that we did.  Most doctors recommend that parents wean their children from the pacifier before they turn 1.  Miss Suri will be turning 5 next month. 

My grandson lived his Nip Nip.  He used it to sooth himself often.  We gradually switched to giving it to him at nap and bedtime only.  We weaned him altogether when we moved him into his big boy bed.  When I see children Suri’s age breastfeeding and still using a pacifier, I wonder what’s up with the parents.  Is it laziness or just not wanting to hear their child cry if they wean them?  Could it be that they can’t tell their children no?  Reminds me of the parents who are suing McDonalds because their children want a Happy Meal and they have to tell them no, lol Not being able to say no to your child is a problem in itself, and the problem is with the adult.   

If Suri was attending public school, she would have to leave her pacifier home.  If not, she would be a target for bullies or the butt of jokes by her schoolmates.  Yes there are 5 year old bullies,  but that’s a conversation for another time.  It’s doubtful that school adminstrators would allow a 5 year old to bring a pacifier to school either.  The fact that she will be privately tutored may be a reason why Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise don’t see a need to wean her at this time.

Regardless of whether you’re a star or not, some parenting skills are universal.   When we lack the ability to tell our children no we aren’t doing them any favors.  Take a look at Paris Hilton and Nicole Richie before she matured and became a mother. Drew Berrymore was another troubled teen and I could go on, but I’m sure you understand where I’m coming from.  Children need limits and guidance.   I wonder what Katie Holmes’ explanation would be if asked why she’s allowing Suri to use a pacifier at age 5. 

Would her explanation be acceptable to me.  No.  Would it be acceptable to you?  Do you believe age 5 is appropriate for a child to still be using a pacifier?  Please leave us a comment.  We would love to know your opinion.