Are you embarrassing to your child? Do you look like this when you drop your child off at school in the morning or pick them up? Has your child asked you to drop them off a block away from their destination so they won’t have to explain to their friends that you’re their mom or dad? If they have you may want to rethink how you’re presenting yourself in public.
A child’s biggest fear is that you will embarrass them in front of friends and school mates. Think about it, didn’t you have the same fears growing up. I remember looking at my mother and thinking, oh God what is she going to say or do now. I didn’t have those kind of fears with my father. That’s probably because he was asleep the majority of the time that he was home and when he was awake, he didn’t say much. His biggest wish was that we would just be quiet!
It could also be because he was more sensitive to us as children. He understood the reality of embarrassing parents. My mother not so much. If it hit her mind, it came out of her mouth or she would act on it. That could have been the stress of raising 7 children, but as a child you don’t understand stress. You only remember the moments that you wanted to crawl under a rock and hid. Have you wondered if your child is feeling the same way?
Here are few ways to embarrass your child for sure:
- You argue with the referee and other parents at sporting events.
- You show up at their school wearing curlers.
- Your at the mall and your pants keep falling down. Your underwear is showing, but you pretend not to notice and keep walking.
- Your sweat pants are too tight.
- Your clothes have holes in them or they’re outdated.
- Your hair looks like you just jumped out of bed, and a hairbrush hasn’t crossed your mind.
- You pick up your child in a car that is backfiring and smoking.
- You show up at an event with a bad make up job.
- You get a gold grill, you want to be cool too.
- A few of your neon green fake nails are missing and you don’t bother to replace them.
- You buy matching outfits for you and your teen daughter.
- You show up at events drunk or high.
- You use slang trying to be cool in front of their friends.
- You call them by their nick names in front of friends.
- You jump out the car and kiss them in front of school mates or friends.
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